Sorry, what we present to you is not a fashionable book, it may even make you feel a little uncomfortable.However, please don't avoid it, and you can't avoid it, because the result of avoiding this problem is that you have to bear more discomfort and even pain. Some people say that the 21st century is the century of psychology. We don't know this, but we can see with our own eyes that there are so many immature people around us.If we say that the biggest problem for Chinese people in the past was food and clothing, then today, the biggest problem for Chinese people is psychological problems, and mental immaturity is the biggest problem among psychological problems.

Seventeen or eighteen-year-old high school students are drinking water from baby bottles in the streets. Is this fashionable, rebellious, or evading maturity? The motivation for recent college graduates to choose postgraduate entrance examination is only: fear of graduation.Are they afraid of graduation, or are they refusing to mature? Countless older young people are unwilling to get married. Are they really not choosing a good partner, or are they afraid of taking on the responsibilities after marriage? Countless adults throw up their hands when they encounter a problem and say, "It's not my problem." Are they really inferior, or are they afraid to face their own problems?

... People can refuse anything, but they can never refuse maturity.Refusing to mature is actually avoiding problems and avoiding pain.The tendency to avoid problems and avoid pain is the root of human mental illness. If you don't deal with it in time, you will pay a heavy price for it and suffer more pain. Mental maturity cannot be achieved overnight, it is a difficult journey. For more than 20 years, this book has accompanied hundreds of millions of readers on the journey of intellectual maturity, and has also helped thousands of suffering people out of their predicament.Undoubtedly, this book has created a miracle in the publishing history of the United States and even the world.Is not it?Which book, without any publicity, has reached the sales volume of 30 million copies just by word of mouth; which book has been ranked on the "New York Times" bestseller list for nearly 20 years ;Which book, after publication, the author received so many letters from readers.No wonder the "Washington Post" book review said: "This book is from the hand of God."

A popular book on psychology and a great book on psychology, it comes from the most outstanding psychologist of our time, Scott Parker.Scott's excellence lies not only in his wisdom, but also in his sincerity and courage.For the first time, he said what people never dared to say, and reminded people what they never dared to remind, that is: almost everyone has psychological problems, but in different degrees; almost everyone has psychological problems in different degrees. Illness is just a matter of different times. Scott inspires us to face our problems bravely, not to run away from them.Facing problems directly, our minds will gradually mature; avoiding problems, our hearts will remain stagnant forever.

However, in our real life, there are many people who evade problems: if you are the boss, you must know how many people in your subordinates dare to take their responsibilities; if you are a parent, you must know why your children are always evasive ;If you are a civil servant, you must know whether you are actively solving problems or avoiding them passively... All escapers are hindering the maturity of their minds; It starts with facing the problem head-on. If you are a person who is eager to mature, a person who is maturing, and a person who has a psychological barrier because of refusing to mature, then please bravely open this book!As long as you have the courage to open this book, you must have the courage to face your own problems; as long as you face your own problems bravely, you will embark on the journey of mental maturity.