Chapter 52 postscript

A parent who often asks me for new work reads all the articles here before the book comes out. She said: "I also read some books on family education before, but I was often disappointed. When I read it, I felt that every sentence made sense, but when I put it down, I felt nothing. Some books are even just showing off." "Success", the more people read, the more they feel inferior, and the more they read, the less they know how to be a parent. After reading your articles, I really know what to think and how to do when facing children. My child is now in junior high school , I wish I hadn’t read these articles earlier, why didn’t you write them earlier?!”

I'm not too slow in writing. It took nearly a year to write these two hundred thousand words, but I did prepare for a long time, at least ten years, from work to research, and then personally taking care of my children. Bring it up day by day. I know that many parents are very eager to learn.There has been no shortage of family education books on the market over the years, which also shows the demand in this area.Since I had a child myself, I have read a lot of books on family education.Some are written by experts, some are written by successful parents, and some are translated and "edited".Some of these books are very rewarding, most of them are disappointing, and some are shoddy and irritating to read.Every time I stand in the bookstore and look at so many dazzling and dizzying books about family education, I always secretly sigh in my heart: how important family education is, parents really need some good books to guide their education, but How difficult it is to choose a good book that is scientific, practical, easy to understand, and practical without bluffing, fooling, clichéd, or misleading!

As a parent, I know what kind of books are useful to me.So, when I started to write this book after a long period of deliberation and preparation, I was full of piety.I have to make the parents who buy my book feel that this book is useful to them, otherwise, it is better not to write it. Some relatives and friends around me, as well as more "relatives of relatives" and "friends of friends" read these articles and gave a lot of positive feedback.This encourages me to write every article seriously. Thanks to the Writer's Publishing House, this book can be officially published and can be read by more parents.I would be most gratified if this book can also make more parents feel "practical".

The title of this book has no intention of comparing the two subjects of "mother" and "teacher", nor does it intend to underestimate the function of teachers in educating people.Here we only emphasize the importance of family education - as each child is an independent individual, the family is his first and most important place for education, and parents are the first teachers who have the most profound influence on him.If a person does not have a good family education, it is probably difficult for him to achieve normal school education. In this sense, "mother" is more important than "teacher".

My daughter Yuanyuan is mentioned everywhere in the book, showing more of her advantages.I don't intend to set up a "successful model", but just want to present some correct educational concepts and share some effective educational experiences with more parents through my "case" of educating my daughter.My daughter is a very normal child, she also has her own shortcomings and problems.Since this book does not focus on her personally, the content that is not very relevant to the theme is "ignored".At the same time, based on the idea that my daughter is not a "model" but just the protagonist of the case, only her baby name is written in this book, and some irrelevant information is omitted-this is also to respect her opinion, and I believe everyone can understand.Here I would like to thank my daughter, who made my "experience" complete.

Here, I would also like to thank Mr. Qian Liqun, professor of Peking University, and Mr. Zhu Xudong, professor of Beijing Normal University, for their recommendation of this book. It is a great honor to receive their affirmation and support.Especially Mr. Qian Liqun, who didn’t know me well, and he was able to take time out of his busy schedule to read the manuscript I sent without anyone recommending him.He not only put forward revision suggestions for some inappropriate places, but also readily agreed to recommend this book.The gentleman doesn't care that the person looking for him is an unknown person. The only criterion for him to make a selection judgment is the quality of the manuscript.After retirement, Mr. devoted a large part of his energy to educational public welfare undertakings. At this time, I became the direct beneficiary; I know that Mr. recommends this book so enthusiastically and free of charge because he has Chinese education in his heart. The target of the service is more parents and teachers.Once again, I would like to express my respect and thanks to Mr.

If readers and friends have questions and different opinions on the viewpoints of this book, or if you need consultation and feedback, please contact me through my email and blog. I am willing to do my best to communicate with everyone and learn from each other. May children all over the world enjoy a good education, and parents all over the world feel the beauty and happiness in raising children! May life be better and tomorrow be better!