Chapter 12 6.If the price of success is to bow your head first, will you start over?

"Did I lose?" He looks decadent. The end point of knowing himself is his father, which Roger never thought of. "It depends on what you lost." "Now, even I don't know what I have lost." "You care about losing in front of him." Roger knew I was referring to the big man, his father. He pursed his lips and said nothing. "Oh, you have to admit it, it's a fact." I don't allow him to continue to question himself, and I want him to wake up quickly, as long as he is awake enough, it is not too late. "I lost my wheel of fortune, didn't I?"

"Your father never lost his wheel of fortune. He seized almost every opportunity he should have seized and put it into action, otherwise he would not have achieved what he is today. So, neither have you. The wheel of fortune has always been In your hand, just, don't hold it too tight. "Have you heard of the four words that things must be reversed when they reach their extremes?" We have played a lot of swan and phoenix games in the salon activities, and discussed the significance of the "Wheel of Fortune" to our lives countless times. However, I did not show this TAROT card named "Wheel of Fortune" until today. Roger looked.

"This wheel looks like a luxurious 'window flower'." "It may be a grille, or it may not be." "How to say?" "The 'Wheel of Fortune' represents the impermanence of all things in the universe, for example, the alternation of spring, summer, autumn and winter, the beginning and end of the causal cycle, the ups and downs of the cycle of chance... When the wheel of fate is not in hand, everything is still, it is undoubtedly just A flashy window grille engraved on the wall of your life can neither tell you the law of fortune, nor can it explain the mystery of fate for you, and the mystery of fate has become a mystery that can never be solved.”

"What does what you said have anything to do with extremes?" "Everyone has their own 'Wheel of Fortune', but it doesn't mean that if you find and hold the 'Wheel of Fortune', you won't be the one who laments the 'window flower', if you just lament , the big deal is to return to its original shape and become a swan. Besides, swans also have the beauty of swans. ashes." "You mean, I'm endlessly draining my 'Wheel of Fortune'." "Mastering it and making good use of it are two completely different things. "Let me make a more realistic analogy. If you regard your entrepreneurial opportunities in the past ten years as the good luck brought to you by the 'Wheel of Fortune', every time you fail, you will lose one luck, one less two It doesn't matter once, the key is that you didn't reflect on it, but continued to repeat such failures. This is like holding your luck and burning it with you, time and time again, endlessly. How much luck do you think people have in this life? Can you stand up to your squandering like this?"

"So, good luck will burn out one day." "You are the person involved, and you definitely know better than me. My task is to help you see the truth of life. Every time you fail, investors' confidence in you will be reduced by one point, and your chances of starting over will be reduced by one point. One time must be more difficult than the last time, and the next time will be even more difficult, and you have been unwilling to admit defeat, unwilling to wake up, one day..." "One day, when I really wake up, I realize that I have exhausted all my resources and wasted all my contacts, and there is no possibility of starting from scratch."

"At this time, you really lose." "So, I haven't lost yet!" I nodded with great caution. "This is the only good news for you now." "Is what you said related to the inverted Pope?" He received some strange information from my words, and I didn't hide what I really thought in my heart, and, moreover, I planned to tell him bluntly. "Roger, the reason why I discussed this with you is just to tell you something." "What?" He looked into my eyes, bright and persistent. "I'd rather admit defeat in front of my father than lose to myself in the end."

I said this sentence with ease, but he listened with a heavy heart. At this point in the conversation, it was almost dusk, and we both felt a little tired from each other. When we broke up, Roger accepted my last suggestion and promised to call his father in the near future to have an open and honest talk.I know this is a bit difficult for him, but I really don't want him to miss a life mentor like his father who understands him enough and can give him the most practical advice on the road to entrepreneurship. About half a month later, the follow-up activities of the rich second generation salon began.

After everyone's discussion, we plan to start a new "TAROT life and career planning journey" on the basis of the previous value observation. At that time, I found that everyone had some surprising changes. Jason finally plucked up the courage to confess to Coco. It is said that he has been secretly in love with Coco for many years, only because he has a girlfriend who has an ambiguous relationship with his childhood sweetheart. , Now, his girlfriend is looking for another love, Jason is naturally not to be outdone.I can't judge whether this incident can prove that Jason's fear of "choice" has improved, but at least he has taken the first step and is courageous for his love without hesitation.

Mr. Wang joined an entrepreneur club, began to re-understand the value of "entrepreneurship", and looked for some reference motivation for his future life. "I still want to do philanthropy, but I have to understand what real philanthropy is." This is what Mr. Wang told me during the last private consultation. "Gifted students have finally decided to join the WTO." This is what I say from the bottom of my heart, no sarcasm intended. The gifted student gave me an open-minded smile. "I know that the dream is still far away, but at least I have stepped down the superior steps and walked on the flat ground."

Mr. Wang's metaphor expresses his current state very accurately. I don’t know if it’s because of love, but Coco has changed the most. Under the training of public relations expert Catherine, her way of interpersonal communication has been greatly improved. However, Coco admitted that she and Catherine are very stressed. The principles of clear boundaries and extremely clear organization in interpersonal relationships sometimes make Coco feel that he is very passive in doing things.So, I took the time to help the two partners take a TAROT palace card personality test. At first, they were a little hesitant, worried that TAROT would reveal unexpected problems to them, because the intensive relationship these days had already made Coco The friendship with Catherine quickly warmed up, and they needed each other's support at work.

The results of the TAROT test were completely unexpected to both of them. Coco drew the Queen of Wands, and Catherine drew the Queen of Swords. One is a passionate and quick-thinking doer, and the other is a calm, rational and methodical thinker. Obviously, Catherine is suitable for analysis and decision-making, and Coco is good at execution. Is there a better match than this?However, they still need to spend some time to understand each other's personality, which is a test of the understanding, tolerance, balance and compromise ability of both parties. Can go far and steady.Any couple who are trying to establish a long-term relationship will go through a period of personality adjustment, and TAROT can provide them with the most effective help during this period. In the subsequent salon activities, everyone made some new friends one after another, and it seemed that the mysterious Mr. Roger was gradually forgotten. Until midsummer, on a hot and scorching afternoon, I unexpectedly received a call from Roger. He told me that he had closed his business in Shanghai and was invited by his father to serve as the CEO of a new energy high-tech company invested by his father. "You know what? I bought a deck of TAROT cards." "Oh? Have you started learning TAROT too?" "Not yet, there is no such time yet, it is purely for the hanging man, now, it is lying in my wallet every day, and I can take it out to read at any time." I sort of understand why he did it. "I'm curious how he persuaded you." "He didn't convince me. As you said, he was a very patient listener. He just asked me a question." I waited for his follow-up, and there was a cool breeze blowing through my heart. "He asked me, if the price of success is to learn to bow your head first, would you like to do it all over again?" "So, you surrendered." "No, this is not surrender, but a complete rebirth." I'm really happy for Roger, he finally won himself back and embarked on the fast lane of destiny. Success is sometimes so easy. When it is no longer a burden in your life, it will naturally appear in every corner of your future life.