Chapter 107 Quit being proud, keep a low profile

The mountain does not explain its height, and does not affect its towering clouds; the sea does not explain its depth, and does not affect its accommodation of hundreds of rivers; the earth does not explain its thickness, but no one can replace its position of carrying all things. In life, we often have the idea of ​​expressing some unique feelings.However, once it is expressed, it is found that any language is so pale and weak, and it will even become blacker and darker.Therefore, being a man does not require explanation, it becomes the choice of a wise man.So in today's society, the key to getting along with others is to learn to keep a low profile!

When Franklin, one of the founding fathers of the United States, was a guest at the home of an old man, he walked into a small low hut with his head held high. As soon as he entered the door, there was a bang, his forehead hit the door frame, and his forehead was bruised. took a chunk.The old man came out to greet him with a smile and said, "It hurts, right? You know, this is the biggest gain from your visit to me today. If a person wants to understand the world and understand human feelings, he must always remember to bow his head." Franklin remembered Yes, it was a success. Being low-key is a kind of character, a kind of posture, a kind of demeanor, a kind of self-cultivation, a kind of mind, a kind of wisdom, a kind of strategy, and it is the best posture of being a person.Being low-key does not mean giving up, decadence, pessimism and cowardice.On the contrary, it is a spirit of persistent pursuit, a style of excellence, and a permanent strategy for a person to settle down.Know yourself correctly and keep your low profile all the time.

Those who want to succeed must treat others with tolerance, and then be tolerated, appreciated, and admired by people. This is the foundation of a person's ability to establish a world.If the foundation is solid, only then will the luxuriant growth of leaves and branches, having achieved great achievements; if the foundation is superficial, then it is inevitable that the branches wither and the leaves are weak, unable to restrain the wind and rain.And being a low-key person is an excellent posture to strengthen the foundation of the world in society.Being a low-key person can not only protect oneself, blend in with the crowd, and live in harmony with others, but also allow people to accumulate strength, sneak quietly, and achieve careers without showing anything.

Learn to be a low-key person, that is, not to be noisy, not to be pretentious, not to be artificial, not to moan about illness, not to be hypocritical, not to get involved in right and wrong, not to be disgusted by others, and not to be envied by others. Learn to hide your clumsiness.Complaining that you are underappreciated is just the behavior of superficial people. Being low-key is to look at everything in the world with a peaceful mind.Cultivated to this level, people can start well and end well, not only can make people feel poor and happy, open-minded and magnanimous when they are humble, but also can make people profit and lose when they are prominent, neither arrogant nor crazy, not envious, and seek peace.How to be a low-key person?

Without a low-key mentality, it is impossible to be truly low-key. To become famous, you must maintain a normal mind: even if you do small or monotonous things, you must represent your highest level, reflect your best style, and improve your quality and ability in doing things. The Greek ship magnate once said that if one day he was impoverished, the only way for him to make a comeback was to work as a waiter in a restaurant where rich people gather, and observe closely how rich people talk, behave, communicate with others, and think about problems. decision making.This shows that if a person wants to become a rich man, the most important thing is to have the concept and attitude of a rich man.Looking at the whole world, there are countless rich people, but there are very few rich people who are known and respected by others.Such as Bill Gates, such as Wal-Mart, such as Jack Welch, such as Air Jordan, such as David Beckham, which one does not use the mass influence of the media to help them carry their own businesses or careers? , created a huge influence, and thus obtained considerable economic benefits?

Don't be arrogant about your talents: When you achieve achievements, you should thank others, share with others, and be humble, which just gives others a reassurance.If you are used to relying on your talents and looking down on others, then one day you will eat the bitter fruit all by yourself!Please remember: it is a taboo to be arrogant. Tolerating others' faults can show everyone's true colors: a magnanimous, wise and low-key life is sometimes more helpful to solve problems than a cold-eyed high-ranking.Treating other people's small faults with generosity is actually a low-key attitude. This attitude will make people unforgettable and grateful for life.

To be a human being should be tactful and open-minded, not to show your sharpness: success and fame requires a humble attitude, consciously being a spectator in Vanity Fair, and opening up a broad mind. Those who are content are always happy: If you can lower some standards in life, take a step back and think about it, you will be able to be content and always happy.People should realize that there is everything they lack, and this is the greatest wealth. Don't take yourself too seriously: Don't take yourself too seriously, so you won't be complacent, and you can constantly enrich and improve yourself and create a perfect life.

Humility is a virtue that benefits people for life: a person who knows how to be humble is a person who really knows how to accumulate strength. Humility can avoid making too public an impression on others. Such an impression can just enable an employee to continuously accumulate experience in life and work and ability to finally achieve success. Indifferent to fame and wealth and selfless devotion: those with bold and unrestrained personality must be open-minded, those with boundless ambitions must have agitated thoughts, and those who have agitated ideas must easily offend the secular world and the so-called authority.Therefore, the society requires those who achieve great things to be able to hold back, do things in a high-profile manner, and behave in a low-key manner.

Be tolerant towards subordinates: As a boss, you should be tolerant. Since you have entrusted the tasks to your subordinates, you must fully trust your subordinates and let them have the opportunity to display their talents. Only in this way can you give full play to your talents. Simplicity is low-key: Being simple and low-key in life will not only help your own moral cultivation, but also make people feel approachable and easy to make friends with you. Being a low-key person is a kind of life strategy that can be attacked and defended. It seems plain, but in fact it is profound.To keep a low profile in your posture, you must:

Live with humility: Humility is also an expression of being low-key.It is a kind of great wisdom. Those who know how to be humble will surely be respected and admired by the world.That's why people often say: "There are always people who live in humility." Great Wisdom Ruoyu: The word "Ruo" is the key.It devises great illusions and deceptions to disguise its true desires, talents and emotions.This kind of low-key manhood of being willing to be dull and weak is actually a calculating concealment. It encourages people not to seek the first, not to reveal the truth, and to let themselves live their lives clearly.

If you are ignorant, you can not only pretend to be ignorant, but also pretend to be ignorant, pretending to be incapable of figuring things out, making conclusions and making choices, and then wait for the opportunity in "foolishness", pretending to understand playing dumb.When the time is right, he will immediately show his superiority and catch his opponent by surprise.However, the key to great wisdom and foolishness is to have a strategy in mind to deal with the opponent."Confused" is often used to confuse the other party's eyes and ears. It is better to do something than to show inaction, and never to do nothing to show something. If you are confused and pretend to understand, it will be self-defeating. Treat people peacefully: "There are rules in the way, and there are rules in practice", and being a human being is no exception. Treating people and things with a peaceful mind is also in line with objective requirements, because being low-key is the key to success. Keep a low profile: When the time is not ripe, be willing to be a slave to others, be willing to be a slave to others, use lowliness as a cover, and cultivate a spirit of inner strength.When the fluff is not abundant, being low-key and giving up a step is often a useful strategy to win opportunities, use retreat as an advance, show your spirit in the silent place, and finally continue to become stronger, stretch your power, and in turn make your opponent submit. The key to keeping a low profile is to hold on.If you can endure what others cannot bear, you can distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil, and you can distinguish between priorities, big and small, and good and bad. If you have to give up, you have to bear the pain and give up, and if you have to endure, you have to think about it in the long run, so as to realize your ideals, accomplish great things, and create a great cause. It is demeanor to take the initiative to suffer losses: at any time, affection cannot be trampled on.Take the initiative to suffer losses, and the mountains will not turn around. Maybe there will be opportunities for cooperation in the future, and we will come together again.If a person refuses to suffer losses everywhere, he will always want to take advantage of everything. In the end, instead of benefiting himself at the expense of others, he will harm himself at the expense of others.Because, no one is a fool, and no one will be invaded by you in vain. When everyone understands your personality characteristics, it will be the day for them to fight back.When the time comes, you are besieged on all sides, who would dare to help you?In this case, when will you wait until you are undefeated? Applaud the opponent: this is an extraordinary intelligence.Virtue, wisdom, and self-cultivation are our capital in life.Applauding the opponent is a strategy, and those who can lower their stance to applaud the opponent will surely succeed in life and work. There is room for people: take a step back and let the sea and the sky be broad, and endure the calm for a while.For others' faults, there is nothing wrong with the necessary accusations, but you can tolerate him with a broad mind.Be tolerant to diversity, tolerance is a virtue.When you tolerate others, you can also gain the sincere acceptance of others. 1. The premise of modesty is that one's inner self is "real". 2. You must be able to express your humility, and don't let people think that you are "modest" but not "modest". 3. Modesty under the premise of respecting the personality of others is a manifestation of gentlemanly demeanor. 4. There is a huge difference between keeping a low profile with calmness and confidence, and keeping a low profile with flattery. 5. Keeping a low profile can make people admire you.