Chapter 31 7. The Married Life of Emile and Sophie

Emile finally ushered in the happiest time in his life. Seeing that my hard work for many years has not been in vain, I am also sincerely happy.The beautiful couple finally got married. They walked out of the church side by side, with someone leading the way.They don't know where they are, where they are going, let alone what others are talking about, and they just answer their questions vaguely. They are immersed in sweet feelings, and they are completely unconscious of everything around them.This is the weakness of human beings, if you are not careful, you will be dazzled by happiness.

I walked over, took the hands of the two of them, and said solemnly: "My child, after three years of training, your love has finally achieved a positive result. Today is the day when the flame of your emotions burns the most vigorously. In the future It will continue to burn in the days to come, but it will get weaker and weaker." Speaking of this, Emile began to swear that his heart for Sophie would never change.Sophie also withdrew her hand from mine, mocking what I just said in a joking way.No matter how much they disagree with my statement, I will go on: If the husband and wife can maintain the enthusiasm of the love period for a long time after marriage, then the world will be no different from heaven.As far as I know, this has never happened before, but it is not impossible.

"Do you two want to be the first couple like this? I have a secret here that can make you a role model for others. Do you want to hear it?" Emile and Sophie glanced at each other at the same time, they doubted my words.I continued: "Actually, the secret is very simple, that is, after you get married, you still have to treat each other like lovers." Hearing this, Emile laughed and said mockingly: "What kind of secret is this, it's a very simple thing!" "Not necessarily," I said, perhaps more difficult than you think.Just like the tighter a knot is, the easier it is to break, the more you try to get you closer, the more distant your relationship will become.Loyalty is an obligation that both parties in a marriage must fulfill to each other, but if you ask the other party to be loyal to you too much, it will limit the other party's freedom.

If you always talk to each other in a commanding tone, then such a marriage will definitely not last long.Coercion or restraint is the worst way to control a person's mind.Turn caring for each other into your obligation, and that sweet love will become your right.How can this be achieved?The most important point is that both parties have the same ideas. It is true that physical pleasure is enjoyed by people, but neither party has the right to force the other to satisfy itself.My child, in the relationship of marriage, your hearts should be joined together, but you cannot control each other's body at will.You belong to each other, but this belonging should be established on a voluntary basis.

In view of this, my children, I hope you will always treat each other as lovers, but with responsibility for each other.Everything you want should be obtained from love, not taken from each other by force.If Sophie does something for you, you have to know that it is her kindness to you, not an obligation she has to fulfill. I hope that your body and love are all at your own disposal, no matter what you give to each other, it is from the heart or willingly.You have to keep in mind: Even if you are married, you are both independent, and all happiness is based on mutual consent, otherwise it is illegal.

My children, as long as you strictly follow what I say, I guarantee that your relationship will not only not be alienated, but will become closer and closer.Take your time pleasing each other so that you don't get bored with each other. Sophie, Emile is now the head of the family, and you, as his wife, must obey his will, which is the law of nature.If you can do this, he will listen to you in turn, which is also the law of nature.You can control his mind just as he can control your body, but it will take hard work on your part. If you want to control him, you must first control yourself.If you do something for him for a long time, he will cherish your kindness; if you do something for him often, he will be in your control because he is in love with you.

Don't always cling to his side so that he won't bow down at your feet.Instead of being serious all the time, show your shy side from time to time.In front of him, you have to maintain a stable image, and don't be willful or messy.One more thing to note: you can control his love, but also let him know your love for him. You have won his love by giving him favors; you have won his respect by refusing his demands.You have to let him know that you are a chaste woman, but don't let him have an unkind impression of you. Only in this way, Sophie, can you gain his trust.When he encounters something, he will make a decision after discussing it with you.When he goes astray, you must use your tenderness to wake him up and bring him back to the right path.

In order to help him better, you should try to be cute and shy in front of him, and use the power of emotion to awaken his morality and increase his rationality.Even if you are no longer his lover, you are still his wife, his friend, and the mother of his children, and these relationships help to maintain your relationship. You must always remember this sentence: If you can make your husband live a happy family life, then as his wife, your life must also be very happy. Emile, as a man, you need someone to guide you all your life.Before this, I have been playing this role, and I have done my best to fulfill this obligation.

"Now, I'm going to hand over this mission to someone else. From now on, I don't have any authority in your life anymore, and I'm going to hand over everything to someone else, yes, she is Sophie." Their hearts finally calmed down and began a peaceful life.What a perfect couple, what a harmonious family!When I see their happy appearance, my heart will be excited.Thank God for allowing me to hold their hands tightly in my own.Of course, it is also their wish to bring me happiness. The vigor emanating from the child infects the parents, making them feel that they have returned to their youth, or it can also be said that seeing the happy appearance of the child, the parents realize their own value.

Although they had a lot of wealth when they were young, they never felt that life was a kind of enjoyment.Just take a look at our present life, and you will believe that happiness really exists in this world. In a blink of an eye, Emile and Sophie had been married for several months.One morning, Emile walked into my room and said excitedly: My teacher, please bless me, I will soon be a father.What a burden I have on my shoulders, now is the time when I need you again.However, you have raised me, and if I ask you to raise my children, even God will not forgive me. How could I leave such a sweet and sacred responsibility to raise a child to someone else?Even if I have the ability to choose a good teacher for him, just like you did for me, how can I let an irrelevant person educate my child?

I will be my child's teacher myself, but I have a request, I hope you can continue to be my teacher.I will respect your opinion, as long as I am alive, I will not go against your wishes.Now is the moment when I need you the most, because I am about to assume the obligations of an adult. "I want to take you as an example. I hope you can guide me and let me learn how to educate my children. You should take a good rest. Now, it should be time for you to enjoy your leisure."