When I have firmly established my authority, my first concern is how to avoid using it.I will do everything in my power to make him more and more trust in my authority, to make myself his inner confidant, to be an arbiter in his pursuit of pleasure.Naturally, I will never attack his youthful taste. I need to discuss everything with him so that I can control the situation.I have to see things from his point of view so that I can guide him.I will not make him pursue distant good at the expense of his present happiness.If it were possible, I would keep him happy, happy forever.