You must know that now that you are a man, the method of education you are going to adopt is exactly the opposite of the method of educating children.You've been careful to keep his dangerous secrets from him before, and now don't hesitate to tell him.Since he will know these things sooner or later, let him know them not from others, nor from himself, but only from you.Since from now on he must struggle against these desires, so that he will not be captured unknowingly, he must be made aware of his adversary.