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Emile 卢梭 275Words 2018-03-18
If you want to point out his mistakes, you must do so before he makes them.And after making a mistake, don't blame him.If you do this, you will only hurt his self-esteem and make him fight back.There is no benefit to be gained from a nasty lesson.I don't think there's anything more stupid than saying, "I told you so." The best way to make him remember what you said is to forget it yourself.Furthermore, if you find him ashamed for not listening to you, try to comfort him with nice words and don't make him feel ashamed.When he understands that you don't care about your own gains and losses for his sake, and you don't blame him, but comfort him, he will definitely regard you as a dear person.But if your reprimand annoys him even more, he will hate you and make disobedience a routine to show that he disagrees with what you say and belittles your point of view.

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