In order to avoid unhelpful fantasies, let us not forget what to do to suit our circumstances.Human beings have their place in the order of all things.Childhood also has its place in the order of life.Adults are treated in an adult way, and children are treated in a child's way.To treat him as he is, to leave him in his place, to control man's desires according to nature, is all we can do for him.The rest, all depend on external forces, are not up to us to decide.