If a baby cries a lot, if it's not because it's uncomfortable being swaddled, or because it's sick or in need, then it's just habit or stubbornness.Such tears are not the result of nature, but because of the child's nurse, because she does not know how to bear the child's crying.She didn't expect that what made him quiet today would make him cry louder tomorrow.The only way to stop them is to distract them with something that pleases them or grabs their attention so that they forget they want to cry.Most nannies are pretty good at this, and it's a very useful tool when done well.But it's important that your kids don't find out that you're babysitting them.