Chapter 65 Correct common work negligence

Numerous facts have proved that many professional women who have achieved success in their careers are not necessarily smarter or more talented than others, but they must be more diligent, more enterprising, more persistent and persistent than others. They have many good qualities in them. Working habits enable them to continuously acquire more knowledge and become obsessed with dreams and goals.And those professional women who have always been mediocre and have no chance of success are not necessarily stupid than others, but it is precisely because of their bad work habits that hinder their progress towards success and happiness.

Bacon said: "Habits cultivated with wisdom can become second nature." Therefore, if you want to become an excellent professional woman, you must develop good habits, abandon those bad habits that are trending, and correct those Bad habits that have already formed, reorient your life, and make good habits second nature to you. Many working women believe that bad habits are hard to break.In fact, habits are created by repetition and formed according to the laws of nature, just as our words and deeds are habits accumulated over time.Then, habits can be re-cultivated and formed through active and positive changes.As long as you place high value on it, consistently let go of it, avoid the trigger, and replace it with a new habit (one that also satisfies you), nothing can't be changed.

So, what bad work habits do modern female office workers usually have?How can we improve and develop good habits that lead to success? The ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle said: "Excellence is a habit." Since good habits can be acquired through cultivation, you can use your wisdom and perseverance to make our excellent behaviors habitual and become your first habit. Second nature, let yourself habitually think creatively, habitually work hard, this is to make excellence your habit. On the road to success, one more good habit will give you more self-confidence; one more good habit, one more chance of success in life; one more good habit, one more way to enjoy a better life in your life ability.As a professional woman, she must face herself, understand and correct her bad habits.To cultivate good professional habits, you must focus, persevere, and persevere, and finally use the habits to achieve your own future.

The following bad habits must be corrected: Observing time is a good habit and good moral character, and it is also a professional ethics that women must follow in the workplace.In the workplace, keeping time is reflected in being punctual when commuting to and from get off work, delivering goods and paying on time, keeping promises, and arriving where you want to go on time. There are no excuses, and you can do it at any time.If you don't keep others' time, don't expect others to keep yours. In daily work, many professional women are often late for work or meetings, and often fail to complete the work according to the schedule.Over time, the bad habit of being late can easily cause dissatisfaction with your superiors and work partners, and you will be regarded as free and undisciplined, lazy, and have no sense of responsibility for work; the bad habit of procrastinating makes you capable of completing the work at hand, but due to slow progress It often makes others doubt your ability to work.

To improve this bad working habit, we must first strictly abide by the working hours.Don't be late for get off work, and don't leave early when you get off work, so as not to leave a bad impression on people.Observing time is the most basic work attitude, and it is also the minimum requirement for yourself.Secondly, do not affect your work due to personal affairs.For example, do not answer and make personal calls during working hours, and do not bring relatives and friends to the unit for personal affairs, so as not to affect work efficiency.Again, don't delay work because of having fun.On the last day of the rest day, make a psychological adjustment, think about what work to do this week, make a careful work plan, and go to work with a clear mind.

When you are asked about your name, phone number or work deadline, you are always speechless, and then flip through the records, which will reduce the trust of others in you, and your boss will suspect that you are not interested in work and do things out of order. To overcome the bad habit of forgetfulness, you can carefully listen to other people's self-introduction, and the frequently used phone numbers are marked in a prominent place to deepen the impression; try to write a work schedule to remind yourself what you should do every day. You are no longer a student, but if you still often make typos when writing memos, messages, business letters or resumes, it will make people think you are careless.To develop good professional habits, don't always use "not proofreading clearly" as an excuse; to correct this habitual mistake, you must read it carefully many times when compiling the document again. If you are not sure, please Colleagues help to see once.

Your boss gives you constructive criticism, but you come up with a lot of reasons to refute it, and put the blame on others.This shows that you are not broad-minded enough, you are not willing to accept criticism from others, and you are always on the defensive.This can hinder your communication with your boss and even cause conflict.For this bad work habit, you can try to take responsibility for your actions, and don't always shirk responsibility. Always dependent on others like a child, lacking the ability to work independently.When the boss asks for advice, you can't provide affirmative positions and opinions, or hesitate and haw, or simply ignore it.This kind of immature performance makes it difficult for others to entrust you with important responsibilities.To solve this problem, you need to cultivate the habit of independent thinking, and you would rather make mistakes than express your opinions boldly.

The habit of forgetting and forgetting is a stumbling block to success.Forgetfulness is not the same as forgetfulness because you just feel like you're forgetting something.At the heart of this behavior is a feeling of self-doubt.You have little confidence in your own judgment and, in essence, in your own ability to get things done.You don't need to constantly check to make sure that what you are doing is correct.Since you always feel the need to check your behavior from time to time, this can become an OCD.Even if you're "sure" you've turned off the stove, you still need to check.You're constantly rechecking doors, windows, or cars to make sure they're locked.You get out of the car and rush home because you don't know if you closed the garage door.To get rid of this bad habit, you can refer to the following methods:

A．Keep a journal every day.Every day we have many important things that are forgotten because they have not been recorded and have not entered the field of conscious awareness.So make a point of jotting down your most important actions, thoughts, dreams, and accomplishments every day.A year later, when you go back and read the details you jotted down, you are sure to be both surprised and delighted at the insight you showed. B．fix something in place.Some experts claim that keeping things in their proper place can reduce your chances of losing them by 50%.The closer you keep it to where you need it, the less likely it is to lose it.Obviously, cooking utensils should be in the kitchen and toilet paper in the bathroom, but where are things like gloves, pencils, odds and ends, and unfinished newspapers?You should have a small storage box in each room so that you can find what you need in a short time without having to look around.

C．Lenovo.When you bring home something you just bought from the store, make it relate to something fixed or stationary so that you won't find it or buy it again.It works even better if you make the mental association memorable to the point of being ridiculous, Lucas says.For example, if you put your glasses next to the TV, you imagine that an antenna is shattering the lenses of your glasses.Just a few hours later, as long as you think about it, you know where it is. D．meditation.The psychologist Dunn has prescribed a special formation meditation prescription: during the drowsy period of time before falling asleep, you think about what you are looking for in your mind, and you will get a certain clue in the next morning. "Consciously, you may not know where your missing items are, but your subconscious mind does."

E．Spares and copies are kept.Sometimes lost items are simply impossible to find, so some important items including keys and glasses have to be extra.Make a copy of important documents, but don't hide the original in a very secret place, otherwise you may forget where it is placed.