Chapter 26 How to speak to him who fell in love at first sight

In this world, the most talked about topic is love, and love is the least understood.Love has been a source of inspiration for artists since the dawn of man, and love is the foundation of marriage and family.A person is not a complete person without love, or lack of love, which will limit the development of his personality. Smart women tend to create opportunities instead of waiting for them.She enjoyed the whole process of courtship, which drenched her patience and skill. In the vast sea of ​​people, if you meet a man who makes you yearn for, then you must hold on to him firmly, you must know that there are thousands of good men, but there are very few who can really move your heart .Smart girls will pull up their emotional antennas, broadcast radio waves, and cleverly capture their ideals from multiple aspects and angles.

In love, the "performance" of skill is a must.On the road of love, you might as well create a little drama.Most people in love use some strategies naturally.If you like him and you don't want to resort to introductions, you might as well go up to him and have the courage to talk to him. When you are walking alone in the park, when suddenly a handsome boy you seem to know comes to you, then you may think: It would be great if you could make friends with him.But you don't know how to express your feelings to him.Not knowing how to strike up a conversation without making the other person think you're abrupt or boring.At this time, you will use the art of language to help you seize the opportunity of love.

In the park, she saw him again.She wanted to get to know him very much, but she didn't know how to greet him.At this time, with a flash of her eyes, she saw that the book in his hand was what she was looking for, so she walked over to him bravely and said, "Hello, I have been looking for the book in your hand for a long time." , where did you buy it?" "Oh, are you talking about this book? It's really not easy to buy. I'll give it to you if you want to read it." She didn't expect him to be so generous. "But you want to read it too!" "No, you read it, I have other books to read."

"However, it's embarrassing!" "Oh, it's nothing, if you have a good book, of course you should share it with everyone!" "ah!" The girl's face was flushed, revealing an imperceptible smile. "You seem to like mystery novels?" he asked her. "Yes, I don't really like the description of murder scenes, but I like reasoning puzzle games. Especially this author's works are very reasoning, and I can't put it down." "Oh, I like the books of this great writer very much. How many copies do I have in my bag?"

"Oh? So, do you have any?" "Is that masterpiece? Yes." "Then, can you lend me a moment to watch?" "Of course, I can only lend it to you in the afternoon." "Ah? Why?" "It's hard to get to know you, a beautiful lady, and let you immerse yourself in reasoning in the works. It's hard to find such a man." Unexpectedly, he joked to himself. "You..." the girl laughed. "My name is Mary, what about you?" "My name is Tom." In this way, she walked side by side with him, and both made detailed self-introductions, opened up their hearts and chatted, and gradually strengthened their sense of intimacy.

The reason why the lady was able to get acquainted with the man successfully was that her words captured the common interest between the two of them—that is, their love for literature, and used it as a "bait" to open the "gate" for him to speak , making him "hooked" unconsciously.Therefore, in work and life, if you meet someone you fall in love with at first sight and don't want to miss the opportunity, it is best to find the common ground between you and him, and find a common topic to win his favor. It is human nature to like to be praised.Appropriate praise can often open the door for you to talk to him.If you fall in love with him at first sight, you might as well observe him carefully first, discover his strengths, and then praise him.In this way, try passing it on in unmodified language, and the other party will be happy.Of course, your praise should not be too exaggerated, otherwise it will leave him with a false and contrived impression, which will be self-defeating.

In fact, when speaking to him, the most important thing is the first sentence, because it may become the content of your conversation.Many women may have a wrong understanding of what to say, thinking that what they know is too common to be worth talking about, or that the topic must be elegant and learned.In fact, this is an illusion.In fact, most people are interested in things in daily life, such as life, love, drama, movies, books, basketball, table tennis, current news, stories and anecdotes, etc., can become very attractive conversation content . If you like a guy and you don't want to resort to introductions, you might as well go up and have the courage to talk to him.It should be noted that when talking with him, don't argue, don't dig deep into other people's private life, but be careful, if you accidentally talk about the sensitive content of the other party, you should change the subject skillfully and quickly.Moreover, the wording should be more polite, and don't often say "lying" or "hateful" words.While there's no need to be polite, it's best to be polite when speaking to him.

Seven tricks to help you get a man: The devil figure does not mean that you must have the sexiness of big breasts, fat buttocks, and wasp waist. Body language will not suggest profligacy, but it has a proper grasp of the charm of women.Even if she doesn't move, it still reads like a romantic poem. She smiles like an angel, but it's not a weird or wild laugh, but a coquettish smile -- with a little feminine reserve and a little temptation. Not for sexiness, but for emotional appeal.Do not pursue the taste and style, but obsessed with the charm of women. The spring is rippling, captivating, but not wild.It reads brightly, but not stagnantly.You can read all kinds of amorous feelings in your eyes.

Full of magnetism, pleasant to the ear.But hearing its sound is enough to make people dream about it.Even if the voice is whiny, it doesn't make people feel coquettish; it's moderately lingering, and it doesn't make people sick. You don't want to choose an elegant fragrance, nor do you want to choose a fragrance that is too strong and sexy.I prefer to exist in the fragrance, and this fragrance is more charming. At that time, women are like a little poem of style, which is enough to attract the attention of others, and reading her makes people feel special charm. I believe that self-cultivation and nature are the two wings of a bird, and only by spreading their wings together can they fly in the world of style.It is absolutely impossible to lack nature, and it is equally impossible to have nature without understanding.Half of understanding comes from self-cultivation.It needs to cultivate knowledge, cultivate personality, cultivate culture, truly understand the essence of women's amorous feelings, make publicity orderly, restrain properly, and release the beauty and beauty in women's lives.