Chapter 39 Sharing doubles the joy of life

One day, my friend Kidd and I were talking about sharing this topic, and we roughly summed it up as follows: Sharing is a virtue. Share your own things with others, whether it is some snacks or a pleasant experience. When you choose to share with others, you put them in an important position in your heart. When you think of happiness, you will Think of them. Sharing is a need, no one has all the beauty in the world, if everyone has an idea, I tell you my own, you tell me your own, then each of us has two ideas, the same reasoning , if everyone can share, then we can have what we don't have, and make ourselves and others happier.

Sharing is a realm, share your bread with the pigeons in the square, share your biscuits with the goldfish in the pool, and share your happiness and sorrow with your friends.If you have a lot to share, then your life will have meaning, there will be people to share with, then you will have friends around you. I think selfishness is the root of all evil. Don’t think that selfishness can bring you benefits. Selfishness can only bring you isolation. Such a life is full of sorrow, isn’t it?If you don't know how to share, sometimes you will fall into the abyss of pain.Then Kidd told me a story:

One day, God saw countless evildoers from the entrance of hell, and each of them showed extremely painful expressions on their faces. At this time, a bully looked up and saw the merciful God, and immediately prayed to God: "Help me. Merciful God, don't let me go to hell, I must reform myself." God knows, this man was a heinous bully. He not only robbed other people's property, but also killed people, even children. The only good deed was that one day when he was walking, he just stepped on a little spider , I don’t know why I suddenly had a kind thought in my heart, and I moved away slightly to let the little spider go.God saw that he still had a little kindness, so he decided to use the power of the little spider to let the robber leave the gate of hell.

So, God let down a spider's silk from the mouth of hell, so the bully clung to this life-saving straw - the spider's silk, and then desperately climbed up.However, other people who were waiting to be tortured at the gate of hell flocked to grab this spider silk, and slowly, the spider silk lost many people.Seeing that there were more and more people below him, the bully worried that this thin spider silk could not bear the weight of so many people, so he took out a knife from his body and cut off the spider thread under him.However, at the moment when the spider silk was cut off, the spider silk suddenly disappeared, and everyone fell back to the entrance of hell.Of course, bullies are not out of the sea of ​​suffering.

In fact, if the bully could share his chances of survival with others, God would deliver him from his misery.But he didn't do it.Therefore, he also lost the chance to leave hell. "Sometimes, many things are not shared with others, you will lose it, but only when you share with others, you will get better results." Kidd said.In fact, we all know that those who know how to share with others in life are actually the happiest people. When they share with others, they can feel the release of emotions or the spread of happiness.When these emotions are spread, the feeling of pain will dissipate with the wind, but the feeling of happiness will bloom in everyone's heart in an instant.

Without sharing, it is impossible to achieve greater success, let alone win the love of others.So, in order not to be a failure, you must know how to share and share the beauty of life with family, friends and even strangers. My wife once told me this experience: one day, she was waiting at the station, and she had several hours before she could drive. After buying a bag of muffins, she found a place to sit, and took out a book. I read the book intently.Because she was so absorbed in watching, she accidentally saw the man sitting next to her grab a muffin from the bag between them, so shameless!She thought about it for a while and decided to forget it. Don't lose her temper. Unexpectedly, that person picked up the second piece!

As the "thief" continued to take her muffins, she became more and more annoyed, thinking, "If I'm not big enough, I'll be beaten black and blue!" Every time she took a muffin, he followed suit. take a piece."What's he going to do?" she wondered when there was only one piece left.He looked a little stiff, with a smile on his face, and he carefully grabbed the last muffin, split it in half, handed her half, and ate the other half himself. She snatched half a muffin from him and thought, "Oh my god, this guy has a conscience, but he's really rude, why didn't he even say a word of thanks?" She ate half of it in a fit of anger. At this time, she heard the notice to drive, she thought she could leave this nasty guy at last, and hurriedly packed her luggage and walked to the door without even looking at the "ungrateful muffin thief" ".

She got in the car, sat in her seat, and planned to continue reading.When she reached into her bag and touched the bag of muffins, it turned out that she was the ungrateful person who stole other people's pancakes and didn't want to apologize or thank her. The gentleman, in order to preserve a lady's self-respect and save her from embarrassment, shared his muffins with her without complaint. From this incident, it can be seen that it is not difficult to share with family members, and it is not difficult to share with friends. The difficulty lies in sharing with strangers who have never met before.Because there is no relationship involving dedication and responsibility between you, and each other's life, old age, sickness and death are not within the scope of the other person's concern, so a person who can share food, share happiness, or even just share a smile with strangers without complaint A person must be a person with a broad mind and a love of life.What distinguishes big-hearted people from ordinary people is that they are good at overcoming their selfishness, at least showing a little less selfishness than other people.This is also the reason why they are popular and respected on the road of life, and also the reason why they can discover the truth, goodness and beauty in the bits and pieces of life.

Know how to share, your happiness will also bring happiness to others, your happiness is also the happiness of those who love you, your sadness will be comforted by people who care about you, and your heartache will be comforted and hugged by someone.We share all the beauty, we share all the sweetness, when happiness is passed from one person to two people to four people and then to more, the world will be happy.Tell others about your happiness, and you will get others' happiness too.Share it with others!Life is more beautiful because of sharing.