Chapter 27 If there is light in the heart, the world will not be dark

Remember, if there is light in the heart, the world will not be dark.No matter what kind of difficulties and setbacks one encounters, one should not be negative and depressed. One must know that the sun will always rise and hope will never be lost. Looking at the world with an optimistic eye, the world is infinitely beautiful and full of hope, and our life is full of sunshine.An optimistic attitude can make bad things better, but a pessimistic attitude can make good things worse.The first victim of the negative (whining) person is himself.Negative things are like rotten parts of fruit. When there is a rot, it will quickly infect the good fruit.

When the rainstorm comes, the optimist sees the sunshine afterward, but the pessimist can only see the falling flowers defeated in the rainstorm. Fate is like paper, as long as you maintain an optimistic attitude, no matter how it changes, what setbacks and tribulations you suffer, what is drawn on the paper will always be a beautiful and moving scenery. Many of us have this kind of personal experience: when we are prosperous, we will feel that life is full of sunshine; but once we encounter setbacks or encounter adversity, we will feel that life is dark, and even feel that the end of the world is coming!Therefore, personal subjectivity influences and changes a person's life and career to a great extent.

During World War II, a soldier had his throat scratched by shell splinters during a battle.He wrote a note asking the doctor, "Will I live?" The doctor replied, "Yes." He asked, "Can I still talk?" Again, he got an affirmative answer.So the soldier wrote on the paper: "Then what else do I have to worry about?" yes!Why not stop worrying and say to yourself, "What else do I have to worry about?" Maybe you will find that the adversity you are facing is actually too small to be worth worrying about. "Every adversity contains the same amount of seeds of success." Just imagine if there are some things in life that seem to have great difficulties or unfortunate experiences, but they inspire you to achieve success and happiness; if there are no such difficulties or misfortunes, You may not achieve this kind of success and happiness instead.

In the face of adversity, through the trials of various sufferings, and the hope we see in the wandering, can inspire us to achieve success.The great scientist Einstein also pursued hope in the face of adversity, because Newton's laws could not answer all his questions, so he kept exploring nature and finally proposed the theory of relativity.According to this theory, people found a way to break atoms, understood the relationship between mass and energy, and successfully conquered space and solved many puzzling problems.These achievements would not have been possible without Einstein's unwavering conviction.

Although the result of our struggle may not necessarily change the objective world, it can change our inner world and enable us to move forward along our own spiritual path. Optimism is not only enjoyed by some people, as long as you master the method, you can always maintain an optimistic attitude. (1) Reinterpret disaster. We should dismantle the notion that bad things are disasters.Just like unemployment, although losing a job is serious, even a disaster, it cannot be denied that there is no banquet in the world; it must also be admitted that after a period of adjustment, there may be other opportunities for the coexistence of challenges and beauty.

(2) Improve control ability. Because of bad luck or lack of success, pessimists feel that bad luck is always with them.Bad finances or an unfaithful lover can be a major cause of career failure and marriage dissolution.Strive to maintain a balance between embracing the responsibilities that reality throws at you and acting on the negative consequences—find another job or place a marriage ad.Acknowledge that not everything in the world is in your hands. (3) Seize the optimism. Do you think everyone is up when their temperament is up?The flowers are bright and dazzling, the neighbors are happy, and the dog wags its tail frequently.Try to understand what you are thinking and feeling in this moment.If you feel good, know why and how.Positive thoughts can also be stored in case the darkness comes, such as the fifth snowfall in a severe winter season, so that the winter is short and the flowers will bloom again soon.

(4) Avoid superficial conversations. Small talk can enhance social interaction, and substantive interaction can create a sense of happiness in people.It's not possible to have a deep philosophical discussion every morning with the guy who stole your security badge, but meeting a close friend or spouse for a deeper conversation can make you a lot more optimistic. (5) Look at the world optimistically. Cultivating optimism is not about "breaking the old and innovating" the way of thinking.If the situation around you is really not ideal, that's okay.Why not think about the good?Pay more attention to the things that are still good, and you will know that there is no need to make everything perfect for the sake of optimism, just like the water in the glass always overflows the cup.

In life, we must continue to work hard with a positive attitude.For the strong, one adversity will create a seed of equal size that can overcome any difficulty.Optimistic people have a power that can overcome all difficulties and tragic circumstances, and every optimistic person will get happiness.