Chapter 72 Humor makes you social

Everyone has their own life path and their own concept of life.In order to express one's own point of view, one must express it through social interaction in order to gain social understanding.To face life with humor should be the starting point of all outlook on life. Anyone with life experience has experienced the importance of facing life's difficulties with humor.Humor is almost a buffer mechanism, and it clearly has no place for confrontation, disappointment, and pessimism.Humor is also almost a form of rapport, it makes people see things with kindness, tolerance, understanding and development.Such a view of life does not mean avoiding reality, and of course, it does not exclude that some problems in life can be dismissed with a smile.Living in the world and interacting with people with such an attitude towards life will eliminate many unnecessary disputes, and thus make many fellow travelers in life.

In work, study, love, and family life, if there is humor as a lubricant, the effect is really marvelous. It will give people a kind of power to excite the soul, and make everyone approach the goal of success step by step.Similarly, in social communication, in the contacts between people, the power of humor is infinite. Humor is an art, the art of using your sense of humor to enhance your relationships with others and improve your honest evaluation of yourself.Just as electricity is sent down the wires when we flip a light switch, a special force flows when we press our humorous button.We can channel this power of humor into direct communication with others.

With humor, we can learn to replace distress with laughter.Through the power of humor, we can place ourselves and others above pain.In fact, the strength of humor lies primarily in our emotions, not our intellect.Your power of humor is what you show in a lighthearted way.It can also express your sincerity, generosity and kindness. Humor melts the ice and makes us friends.It can cheer us up, boost our confidence, and save us from many unpleasant situations. No matter what industry you are in, what position you are in, the power of humor can help you, make your work and career develop more smoothly, and make your social contacts more extensive.It can make you good at dealing with people, make friends, help you solve interpersonal problems, and teach you how to get out of embarrassing situations.Especially when you want to present a positive and optimistic image, you want to win people's welcome and trust, and when you want to encourage more people to work together to achieve goals, the power of humor can play a greater role.

Freud, the master of psychoanalysis, once said: "The most humorous person is the most adaptable person." Indeed, humor can make us respond freely in social situations, and we can use humor to resolve various crises and conflicts. dilemma. Humor can improve interpersonal relationships, eliminate tension, relieve life pressure, and improve the quality of life.It can free us from ourselves and make us feel at ease with others.