Chapter 10 Chapter Three: The Legendary Life of Nurhachi

Let’s first look back at Nurhachi’s life.His father was a small official in Jianzhou, that is to say, a courtier of Daming, who gave birth to three sons: Nurhachi, Shuerhaqi, and Yaerhaqi. Their biological mother died when Nurhachi was a teenager.The father married them a stepmother, and this stepmother was such an annoyance to the three children, she disliked the left and the right. Later, this stepmother made a request to Nurhachi's father, saying that you still want us to be husband and wife and treat me as a wife, so kill these three children for me. I don't want to live with these three children in the same home.When Nurhachi's father heard this, what's the problem? Look at me!He took out the knife and pointed at the three sons: You three, get out of here. The little happy life of my old age has been ruined by the three of you. From now on, don’t let me see you, let the father see you again , I will kill you when I see you.

The three children could only wipe away their tears and left home. As for this period of history, there is a rich and colorful text among the Manchus. How rich is this text?It was when Nurhachi was wandering, he had a series of legendary stories, but this legendary story was not recorded in the official history.why?Because of the lack of circumstantial evidence, it is not authoritative.What we know is that Nurhachi once met a hunter on his way to Fushun Pass. to survive.When he arrived at Fushun Pass, he found Li Chengliang's home. At this time, a woman appeared in history, Li Chengliang's wife, Mrs. Li.According to the official history, when Mrs. Li saw Nurhachi, she felt that this person was extraordinary. She even called Nurhachi to her side, chatted with him, asked about his growth experience, and then told him that you, Nurhachi, were born to be a A person with a great career, so you must work hard and don't let down what you have learned in your life.

But in official history and folklore, such a problem has been ignored.What's the problem?It is what is so extraordinary about Nurhachi, and why Mrs. Li looks at him highly.As I said before, this Mrs. Li is actually the so-called Xilan girl in the Manchu legend. From a unique perspective of a woman, she thinks that Nurhachi is very promising, but what is her basis? We investigated Nurhachi's childhood growth experience and found that he has a strange feature. His emotional intelligence is super high, which is so high that it is scary.In the history of the Manchu people, there is such a legend:

When Nurhachi was forced to run away from home, he was walking on the road in the dark when suddenly there was a snowstorm. He staggered forward in the blizzard, and suddenly saw a hole in front of him, so he got into it. After getting in, he stretched out his hand and touched the soft body hair. He thought this place was good, so he lay there and slept.When he woke up at dawn the next day, he opened his eyes and saw a colorful tiger curled up beside him, warming him with his body. This legend is explained in this way, saying that the tigress had just given birth to a tiger cub, and the tiger cub died.

The tigress just needed to express its maternal love. At this time, Nurhachi came in, and it regarded Nurhachi as its own son. After that, Nurhachi rode this tigress across the vast wilderness and arrived in Fushun. Logically, if these three people wandered from Jianzhou to Fushun through the vast wilderness, they would only become frozen ghosts on the road, and they would not be smooth and safe. But in history, the three Nurhachi brothers did arrive smoothly. up. When Nurhachi arrived in Fushun, he first stayed in Li Chengliang's house. Every day he went to the training ground to watch military exercises and training.He also often talks about the art of performing soldiers with people.At this time, he was only a half-adult child and had not received strict and formal military training, but he had his own way of training soldiers.Because of this, he attracted the attention of many generals under Li Chengliang's tent, who felt that this child was different and a born military strategist.Li Chengliang's son, Li Rubai, even sworn sworn brothers with him.

As a homeless man of unknown origin, he can get along like a fish in water in the local area. What does he rely on?It relies on this subtle grasp of interpersonal relationships.This grasp is also reflected in one of his inventions. There is a famous dish in Northeast China called pot-packed meat. It is said that this dish was created by Nurhachi. It is recorded in the history books: a local wealthy family held a banquet, and Nurhachi went to help. After making such a pot-packed meat on the spot, four guests They were all surprised, and the owner of the household immediately called Nurhachi over, asked for his name, and betrothed his daughter to Nurhachi.In this way, Nurhachi got married and had a wife.

It sounds like it’s a bit imprudent to marry your daughter just for a dish, but in fact, you have to know what kind of era it was. As a man, he was engaged in hunting every day, watching soldiers’ drills, During this process, when he walked into the kitchen, he was able to cook a dish that had never been done before on a whim. What does this indicate?It shows his strong thinking integration ability and ability to grasp and master the details. Think about it, making such a dish may not be a big deal for the chef, because he studies this every day, but Nurhachi does not study it every day. Well, then why he can make this dish, because he has a fine personality and is good at observing details, and he is also good at making articles on details. It is this characteristic that makes Nurhachi different from others.

Nurhachi has extraordinary ability and skills in dealing with the details of things. It is precisely because of this ability that he, as an ordinary civilian, can be appreciated by Li Chengliang, and he can sworn brothers with Li Chengliang's son. All this proves that He must have a high emotional intelligence and is good at dealing with people.If he is not good at dealing with people, we can't imagine that the son of a chief soldier will make friends with him.It is precisely because of such a characteristic that Nurhachi is destined to rise.Historically, Nurhachi's success has always been said to be due to his high IQ, such as being wise and powerful, but in fact it is not, and it is all due to his extraordinary EQ.