Chapter 16 Sixteen, micro life

Promotion: Mao Renfeng, promoted from a small person to the highest position, how did he succeed?Someone summed up his five characteristics: 1. Smile, keep a sincere smile under any circumstances; 2. Responsibility, no matter whose fault it is, take responsibility for it yourself; 3. Professional, work hard, answer business fluently; 4. Patience, if the time is not up, you will never tear your face; 5. Be ruthless, don't take it out lightly, and you will kill if you go out... Sensible: Lu You wrote a poem saying: When I was young, I didn’t know that the world was difficult, and the Central Plains looked like a mountain in the north——When I was young, I didn’t know that the world was difficult, and I thought it would be easy to serve the country and save the people.But then again, what is so difficult about the world?Make Lu You cry bitterly?In fact, in this world, it is very easy to do things by yourself.But if you mistakenly think that you are God and tell others what to do, then you will find that it is difficult, really difficult.

Ways of life: 1. Don't be a bad person. When you only express your opinions on people and not on opinions, you are a bad person. 2. Don't be a villain. When you hurt others and don't apologize quickly, you are a villain. 3. Don't be a nice person, if you deliberately confuse right and wrong, sooner or later someone will do the same to you. 4. Don't be a fool, what you want to protect is the right of others to speak, not your right to be hurt. 5. Know the pros and cons, know right from wrong, and be a normal person. Three Proverbs: 1. What is the most difficult?Knowing yourself is the hardest. 2. What is the easiest thing?It's easiest to spot other people's mistakes. 3. How can I win the respect of others?Don't do what you ask others not to do.

Quotations: People must grasp the reality, do what they should do, and do what they can—1. Require people to force them to do the right thing; 2. Prevent and punish people from doing bad things; 3. Education And encourage people to do good things; 4. Never force people to do good things. Ability: How to judge a person's ability?A person's ability is directly proportional to his evaluation of others.Capable people must be those who have done things, at least they know how difficult it is to do things.So they don't belittle others lightly, and pay more attention to how others make things done.On the contrary, most people who lack ability have never done anything before and do not understand the difficulty of doing things, so their evaluation of others will inevitably be blamed and not too high.

Shut up: Zizhang asked Confucius about the skills of being an official. Confucius said: Listen to others more, just listen and don't talk.Also, when others are doing things, you should watch more, just watch, and don't talk.All in all, as long as you keep your mouth shut, you'll be fine. Stage fright: There was a teacher who taught literature. After entering the classroom, he looked straight at the students and didn't say a word for more than ten minutes.Then he started to give lectures, and finished a class in less than ten minutes.Then he looked at the students with bulging eyes, which made the students hair stand on end.Then the teacher turned around and wrote on the blackboard: Today is my first lecture, there are so many people, I am very scared... The teacher's name is Shen Congwen.

Friend: The word for friend is composed of two shells. In ancient times, shells meant wealth, and friends brought you wealth.But this also means that you must also be able to bring wealth to your friends.There are two kinds of wealth, one is material and the other is spiritual. For example, a confidant is a kind of spiritual wealth-unless you can provide others with one of these two things, otherwise, you will not have real wealth. friends in the sense. Agree: When Hu Shi first entered Peking University to give lectures on philosophy, the students stared at him and thought that Hu Shi was wrong, but they were right, so they launched a movement to expel Hu Shi.Hu Shi was young, he was in a state of embarrassment in the face of the attack, and was about to be driven away. At this time, several professors of Chinese studies from Peking University came and sat under the podium to listen to Hu Shi's lecture carefully. The students accepted Hu Shi... The more they don't understand, the more they think If you are right, it is difficult for people who do not understand to admit you, but it is easy for people who understand you to admit you.

Low-key: Branson, a balloonist, participated in the balloon launch ceremony of the rich man Fawcett. Branson's cool appearance won the audience's praise. During this period, a fat, ugly and fat man kept looking at him .Later, Humpty Humpty said to Branson: We should go.Branson said: Fuck off, I haven't seen the rich man Fawcett yet.Humpty Dumpty said: I am Fawcett. Cooperation: King William of Prussia appoints Bismarck as Prime Minister and sets out to unify Germany.But the cooperation between the two was not pleasant, and they often quarreled fiercely until midnight. King William was so angry that he lay on the sofa and wailed loudly more than once. Wronged, a great person who can endure grievances is a great man, and a person who is unwilling to be wronged and indulges his selfish desires is a tyrant.

Self-reliance: When Feng Yuxiang was stationed in Zhangjiakou, he hired several American missionaries and university professors.Before inviting these foreigners to come, Feng asked one of his staff: What do foreigners like to eat?The staff officer replied: Ice cream.So after the foreigners came, they didn’t have any food except ice cream every day... This story shows that other people don’t take your food seriously, and you have to figure out your own way. Praise: When Voltaire was 83 years old, he wrote a script, which was so bad that no one could stand it when it was performed, but worried that the old man Voltaire would be stimulated, he applauded like crazy.The shout attracted a passer-by from outside, who came in to have a look, turned around and ran away in fright, thinking that there were a group of lunatics in the theater... Those who praised us and praised us were just out of caring for our emotions.

Friend: Cloud: The majesty has a life, to establish a country and inherit a family.If a person wants to succeed, he must first start by thinking about himself, and slowly explore the ways of experience. Only on the way of doing things, will he meet friends who do things. Conflict: Confucius said: Threesomes, there must be my teacher - why threesomes?Can't two people?Could it be said that when there are two people, the other person is not worthy of your study?In fact, the meaning of this sentence is: when there are three people, two views will be formed, there will be arguments, conflicts, and struggles. You have to choose what is good and follow him, let the two of them pinch, let The two of them fight, unless you are the winner in the end, the book will be for nothing.

Diary: The great Russian writer Tolstoy had three diaries, one for the public, one for his wife, and the last one for him to read secretly. Wang Xiaozao: The protagonist of "My Beautiful Life" is beautiful, kind, intelligent and hardworking, loves her boyfriend, and loves life... Her greatest feature is her understanding, and her correct outlook on life and values—knowing what is right and what is wrong of.Thus she always does the right thing and makes fewer mistakes than others.Therefore, it is absolutely impossible for the real Wang Xiaozao to be a nanny, she doesn't need it.Such is life, unless you are successful as a person, you will not be successful in business.

Nationality: Liu Wendian went out and saw a farmer beating a woman violently, so he rushed to stop it.The farmer is angry: I beat my wife, what do you care?Liu Wendian got angry, raised his hand and slapped the face, the farmer was beaten, and ran away holding his cheek.Liu Wendian was complacent, so he didn't watch out for the peasant woman who suddenly grabbed him: Why did you hit my husband?Why?Grabbing Liu Wendian and yelling at him, and refusing to let go, Liu Wendian was embarrassed...Liu Wendian forgot that there is no right and wrong in the family, so he will be embarrassed. Accusation: The ancients said: Everyone is innocent, but pregnant is guilty.The superficial meaning of this sentence is to say: a man with nothing and a house is safe, but a rich man is naturally sinful.It's just that there are too many people coveting his money.And the deep meaning of this sentence is: a mediocre person with no ambition will not be criticized, but a capable person will become a target because of his ability.

Brother: Wang Geng married a beautiful wife.His classmates often came to his house to grab dinner, and they rubbed Wang Geng's wife away.But Wang Geng's wife is called Lu Xiaoman, and the classmate who took his wife away is called Xu Zhimo, so there is no place for Wang Geng to speak as usual in history.But Xu Zhimo was also ruthless, and even pulled his sister-in-law Lu Xiaoman to go to his teacher Liang Qichao to witness the marriage, but Liang Qichao severely scolded him at the wedding... Me: The word we say the most is "I", so what does "I" mean? "I" is a utensil from ancient times, with a short handle and serrated blade, which is super beautiful.But when fighting, it is very difficult to hurt others, but very easy to hurt yourself.It's superficial, not practical... So, "I" means that I think I'm great and occupy a lot of space, but in fact no one can count on you, so it's better to keep a low profile. Martial arts: He is the person who has been filmed the most in the world, and his martial arts are amazing.A friend tricked him into going to the Shanghai Concession to beat a big wolf dog raised by a foreigner. His back was broken by a palm of the big wolf dog, and the foreigner cried and rolled all over the floor.When the police came rushing, he ran away and fled back to his hometown in one breath, saying: If you make a living with your fists, you must have grudges with others.Later, he switched to street performing arts, and also conducted biochemical research, and came up with a herbal tea recipe, which has made a lot of money since then.His name is Huang Feihong, you know. Cooperation: Bill Gates discussed with technical genius Paul Allen, and the two took a break from school to create Microsoft.When the two formally agreed on a cooperative relationship, Bill Gates insisted on a six-four split, six for himself, and four for Allen, because Allen gave up State University, and he gave up Harvard University.As a result, as of 1999, Bill took away at least 15 billion yuan from Allen... Money is earned from collaborators, which Bill Gates taught us. Comparison between Cao Cao and Liu Bei: Cao Cao knew what was going on in the world and how things would change, so he seized the commanding heights of profit and became the biggest winner at that time.Liu Bei's starting point is low, he doesn't know what's going on, and how things will change, but he is determined to do the right thing for his people.Cao Cao knows how to do things, this is called the right time.Liu Bei knows how to behave, which is called harmony.So these two people boiled wine with green plums and called them heroes of the world. At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a young knight-errant who walked alone with a sword, wandering around the wilderness.Many people admired him and came to join him, but the young man's family was completely destitute, so he killed the only cattle in the family to entertain guests.His followers were very moved and sent him a thousand horses.Later, the young man joined the army and made great achievements in battle. The court rewarded him with 9,000 bolts of silk, and he distributed all of it to his subordinates... Do you want to follow such a person?Don't rush to answer, this young man is the national thief who is causing trouble in the world: Dong Zhuo. Dian Wei of the Three Kingdoms, super able to fight.He followed Cao Cao to attack Zhang Xiu, Zhang Xiu surrendered, and Cao Cao ran over to sleep with Zhang Xiu's aunt.Zhang Xiu was furious and beat Cao Cao again. Dian Wei tried his best to protect the boss and was beaten to death.Later, Zhang Xiu and Cao Cao reconciled, and Cao Cao's son married Zhang Xiu's daughter.Dian Wei died for his boss to pick up girls, and his death was worthless.He was a dog in life, and a dead dog in death.He could have been a warrior with dignity, but instead he was reduced to an outcast minion. Peng Sheng, a native of Qi State in the Spring and Autumn Period, listened to the leaders very well.At that time, Duke Xiang of Qi married his younger sister Wen Jiang to Duke Huan of Lu, and then Duke Xiang of Qi committed incest with his younger sister Wen Jiang.Duke Huan of Lu knew about this and criticized Wen Jiang. Wen Jiang became angry and complained to his elder brother Duke Xiang of Qi.So Duke Xiang of Qi invited Duke Huan of Lu to drink, and secretly ordered Peng Sheng to kill Duke Huan of Lu.After the incident, the people of Lu State investigated, and Duke Xiang of Qi killed Peng Sheng in order to avoid war. During the Warring States period, South Korea was weak and wanted to curry favor with the powerful Qin State, but had no money, so it decided to sell beautiful women for money.But Korean beauties cannot be bought by most countries, and only Qin Guo spent three thousand gold to buy Korean beauties.Then South Korea dedicated the three thousand gold obtained from selling the beauties to Qin.This is tantamount to the fact that Qin State has not spent any money, and got Korean beauties for nothing, and despised South Korea even more... The moral of the story: Don't curry favor with the rich and powerful, it will only make you lose your self-esteem. Mao Yushi went on a trip.When starting out, the tour guide said: There are no interesting attractions in the world, only interesting people.People don't think so, travel is to see the scenic spots, how can you say that the key lies in the people, not the scenic spots?At the end of the tour, Mr. Mao suddenly felt that what the tour guide said made sense.In fact, if you want to wear it, everything in the world is dead, but people are alive.How we feel about the world is all about how we see the world and how we treat each other. Hu Shi once prescribed three medicines to graduates.The first medicine is called Question Pill, which means that everyone should always bring one or two troublesome and interesting questions by his side to enrich his spirit.The second medicine is interest powder, there must be some fun in life, not a hobby that does not care about fame and profit, and avoid spiritual exhaustion.The third medicine is confidence soup.Hu Shi said: This era is the time to cultivate our confidence. Without confidence, we will really go crazy and commit suicide. Jack Welch's first job was as a caddy.Buffett's first job was selling newspapers.The earliest Stephen King didn't write horror novels was cleaning up garbage on the high school campus.Oprah Winfrey, the queen of American talk shows, was the first to sell goods in supermarkets.Billionaire Donald Trump, picking up soda cans and selling them for money... Everyone has a common starting point, but their endings are different.The difference during this period lies in your own choices and efforts. Loneliness: Jiang Baili brought his two daughters to Germany. An old lady said to him: It is important for children to study, but more important is the group life of children.Young people are most afraid of inner depression and loneliness. Loneliness will weaken the spirit of children. Even if they have knowledge, they will not benefit society.So in addition to studying, parents must also pay attention to the social environment of their children, so that children have sufficient social activities... Do you feel lonely?It must be a lack of adequate social interaction. Haruki Murakami: 1. No matter how talented you are, you may not be able to fill your belly, but as long as you have a keen intuition, you don't have to worry about not being able to make a living. 2. If you don't give up anything, you can get nothing. 3. Under certain circumstances, the very existence of one person hurts another. 4. Profound does not mean close to the truth. 5. Fish said, you can't see me crying because I am in the water; Water said, I can feel you crying because you are in my heart. Control: Li Ka-shing said: Poverty is not necessarily a lack of money, but the frustration of disillusioned hopes and opportunities.Many people are afraid that the room for improvement is getting narrower and narrower, and they will not be able to break through the limitations of lack and weakness in their entire lives.I understand these fears because I have suffered them all.No one wants to be poor, but where is the way out? ... Li Ka-shing gave the recipe for mastering success: health, pursuit of knowledge, self-discipline to build the charm of integrity, self-denial and humility. Down: Jiang Jieshi once taught his children: the most important thing to be a human being is to work hard on the word "forbearance".Forbearance is not to be submissive, let alone to be beaten weakly and not fight back, but to grit your teeth in the struggle and never give up.Always face the enemy, even if you are defeated by the enemy, you can only fall down, and you must not surrender and squat on the ground, losing your integrity... Later Chiang Kai-shek was really defeated, but just as he asked himself, he did not squat down. Chen Danqing once mentioned: adults change into tigers, villains change their faces, and gentlemen change into leopards.The first sentence says: If you want to become an all-powerful big shot, you must have a powerful and arbitrary personality.The second sentence says: If anyone has become a villain who is erratic, erratic, and wrong to others, then he needs to reflect and repent.The third sentence says: A humble gentleman is the most rare thing. The elegant temperament of a gentleman, like the pattern of a leopard, is formed after years of hard work. Quotations from Zeng Guofan: 1. To be disgusting, you cannot do without the word "arrogant". 2. Don't be too smart. 3. With a broad mind, you must learn from the word "plain". 4. Those who enjoy great fame without reality will surely suffer disaster. 5. Do not criticize and ridicule the ancients lightly. 6. Be quiet first, then think about it, and do it when you are half or sixty sure. 7. Restart the stove and reopen the world. 8. For a man to be self-reliant, he must be stubborn. 9. Difficulty is the time to train a hero. 10. Don't live alone in your merits, and don't shirk your faults. People often blame the economy, the government, their parents, or even the weather for their problems.Little do you know that the only person responsible for your life is you, and only you have the power to change it.Our thoughts and actions form our life lessons, and The Secret of Wealth tells us how to make life lessons meaningful and, at the same time, create the destination of your dreams. —Rockefeller's letter to his son. Advice from Rogers to his daughter: 1. Don't ask how much money others make, and don't tell others how much money you have. 2. Any "must try" and "must read" things can be avoided, especially popular things. 3. Half the population has an IQ below the median. 4. Always buy high quality stuff, they last longer and hold their value better. 5. Don't go out for drinks after get off work.Bosses don't do that, which is exactly why he's the boss. Happiness: Mao Yushi said: What is our task in living in this world?What is the purpose?Be happy yourself, help others be happy.This result is the maximization of the happiness of the whole society.Some people say, do you still care about so many important things in society and international disputes?I don't think all of those things add up to what I'm saying.Maximizing the happiness of the whole society can make oneself happy and make others happy.Don't use rhetoric to mislead. Bai Yansong said: The success of a person depends on the success of the way of thinking. A person who keeps learning and changing the way of thinking will be stronger, but a follower who follows others is not strong.A person's income and social status are directly proportional to your irreplaceability, so you must make yourself a more irreplaceable person.Independent personality and independent way of thinking are irreplaceable.We always want to be like others, but can you be like others can't be like you? Solidification: Lang Xianping said: You have worked so hard to study at Peking University, Tsinghua University and Fudan University, and your salary is 2,000 yuan a month, which is not as good as that of a nightclub lady.Do you know how much this has subverted traditional Chinese culture?In the past, Han Chuang studied hard to get ahead, what do you rely on today?Speculation.Today's problem, I think the most fundamental root cause is not the deterioration of people's hearts, but the result of the solidification of the entire social class.Our young people have no chance to make their mark. Boss: Liang Qichao said: Kang Youwei and Sun Yat-sen always wanted to cooperate, but their subordinates were enemies and tried their best to stop them.When he was in Japan, Sun Yat-sen went to see Kang Youwei. Kang Youwei happily went downstairs to greet him. Halfway through, he was stopped by his subordinates and refused to let him go. He insisted that Sun Yat-sen was carrying a murder weapon and wanted to take Kang Youwei's head. ... The boss is the boss of the subordinates, the boss can manage the subordinates, and the subordinates can also repair the boss. Lu Xun's Proverbs: 1. The Chinese people's addiction to government is really deep... 2. Reading history, the more you can realize that China's reform cannot be delayed. 3. Freedom cannot be bought with money, but it can be sold for money. 4. In the world, if you hate monks, you often hate cassocks. 5. In the world of China, it is extremely difficult to be not only a human being, but also a ghost. 6. Those who delete branches and leaves will not get flowers and fruits. 7. In fact, China was originally a federation of lying countries and rumor-mongering countries...