Chapter 4 Verse 3: Is it a sin for a man to cry?

One day I was chatting with my partner Li Xiang and talked about acting.She said that while acting, she became more able to control her emotions.For example, when filming, the director will ask you to cry within ten seconds, and it must be big tears, and in order to cry beautifully, you are not allowed to blink your eyes or squeeze your facial features, just stare blankly. Crazy tears are right. Most actors can do these incredible requirements.I listened, transfixed. Later, we talked about doing the show.Everyone unanimously reported that I love to cry more and more now, almost approaching Li Xiang's "Weeping Angel" throne!At the beginning, she was the one who cried, or her voice was choked up, or she couldn't make a sound, and it was impressive every time.But now because everyone thinks that a host of a variety show should not cry all the time on the show, and should bring more happiness to everyone, we all think it makes sense.So people just controlled themselves and managed their emotions.I never expected that after she got it right, all the crying scenes were picked up by me.

It is enough to reflect on it.Seeing the heartwarming short film of New Year’s greetings carefully edited by the director, when I cut back to the scene, I saw tears in my eyes; when I talked about the ups and downs of the show for several years, and the revolutionary friendship of sharing weal and woe, I really cried; I wished paralysis in the show I also cried when my child could stand up one day earlier; a migrant worker who hadn’t returned home for several years was unexpectedly reunited with his family on our site, and I cried; an introverted and shy boy in the show finally told his crush Feelings in my heart, looking at me again, I was wiping tears beside me without any new ideas.

The worst time, after watching the clip where the soldiers miss their mother, I openly cried in the camera until my facial features were distorted. Not to mention hosting the show, that face is basically a visual disaster, and I can’t even look at it. In Li Xiang's words: "As long as there is a little sensational content in the show now, every time I turn around, I can see Jiong Jiong's tears spurting out." The enthusiastic audience also reflected: "Who are you doing this for? Why do you become more and more addicted to crying?" There are also good people guessing that He Jiong must have suffered a setback in his personal feelings, so he vented his joy on the show.

Injustice!How come I don't know that I shouldn't burst into tears every now and then?But I don't know why, but recently it has become more and more out of control.The strangest thing is that in real life, I am notoriously ruthless. No matter how turbulent my heart is, my expression must be calm and clear.Why did he react in a straight line when he was on stage?Sometimes I also think that if this goes on, I will change my career sooner or later. Maybe some programs need "tear gas bombs", but I don't know if it is too late to grab the show... I have studied this strange phenomenon well.Maybe it's because I have experienced more slowly, I began to understand the warmth and coldness of human relationships, I learned that happiness is hard to find, I realized the reality of the world, and after seeing some things, I became compassionate and compassionate, and I also began to understand love, and I was willing to cry and laugh for others.Now our programs are paying more and more attention to people’s hearts and humanity, and we especially like to dig out the most real and most sensational parts of life. I have always been soft-hearted, and my soft-hearted places are always attacked, so I am always defeated.After working in the base camp for so long, it seems that I have regarded my partners, colleagues, and audience as family members, and gradually let go of the subconscious layer of vigilance, refusing to restrain my feelings, so I quickly "reduced" into a generation of crying god.

I'm still really confused until now.As a host, is it better to control emotions so as to grasp the atmosphere of the whole scene?Or is it right to show your true nature and share the same joy and sorrow with the audience?Just like in our life, should we be aware of the general situation, understand the situation, and make the most intelligent response from time to time, or can we really be honest and frank, with a plain face? It seems to be quite reasonable.Now I am very thinking: "If you have a few catties and a few taels, just do heavy things! Since I don't have the ability to flexibly control myself now, let's just let my true temperament. Anyway, I can't be neither fish nor fowl."

how about you?