Chapter 41 5. What the English Rose left behind

Farewell! The brightest star in the night, Quietly, glowing in the dark night, Farewell! The brightest star in the night, Quietly, advancing on its own track, No agitation, no shouting, There is only gentle whispering, humbled towards the pain. Elton John played and sang "Candle in the Wind" in front of the piano in tears: you are in my heart Like a candle in the wind... Your candle has long been extinguished And your deeds remain forever... How many people miss your love, Many times farther than you know. Diana's life can be described as vigorous, bustling, ups and downs.The candle is extinguished in the wind, and her story lives on forever.

All her life, she has been struggling to find the destination of love.There was more than one man in Diana's life. The earliest one was the Crown Prince of England, her ex-husband, Prince Charles --- the first condition for the British royal family to choose a concubine is a virgin. Later, in the lonely boudoir, her equestrian coach Hewitt took advantage of it. As a result, this shameless man, for economic reasons, even wrote about the relationship between the two of them for money. Since then, Diana's love life has been constantly ups and downs: the phone tryst between the old car dealer Gilbey and her was recorded, she fell in love with the football team captain Carlin, the antique dealer Oliver became the guest of honor, and the favorite football The star turned down Diana's invitation in spite of all sympathy...

These people have common traits: being able to treat her with a humble attitude, pampering her like a apple of the eye, waiting for her call at any time, being considerate and considerate... However, most of them are married. The most distressing thing is that Diana is being gradually betrayed by her past lovers, and love kneels down at the feet of money again and again. Hewitt, who holds Diana's 64 love letters, told the British "News of the World": "Give me 10 million, and it will all belong to you...These letters are unique and unique in history-the royal family members are outside. A love letter from a soldier who fought."

She has done many good things. In January 1997, she participated in a trip to Angola, Africa, organized by the Red Cross Society, and personally stepped into a landmine field to inspect it. She spoke out for more than 70,000 innocent people who were killed and disabled by accidentally stepping on landmines around the world, and called on the whole society to pay attention to it. The problem of landmine remnants. She cares about AIDS patients, and the photo of her holding a child with AIDS in her arms has shocked countless people.She raised money for the poor, and she tried her best to help the poor who were homeless.

She is involved in at least 150 charities and is the patron or chair of no fewer than 100 charities.In an interview with the British BBC, she said that she hopes to become a "British special ambassador" and give her love to those who lack love all over the world. Her myth is inseparable from the media. She is undoubtedly the most frequently exposed woman in the world, whether in the UK where she lives or in remote Africa, where there are crowds, people can see her every day from dozens of newspapers, magazines or TV channels.Her exquisite and almost perfect smile has become a symbol of Britain, far more familiar to the world than the royal family behind her.

Her beauty is noble and unmatched. She combines beauty and fashion to dazzle the world.Recognized by the fashion industry, she undoubtedly leads the fashion trend in the world, and even her typical hairstyle is named Diana style. A magazine once reported that she spent about £4,000 a week on clothing.Every piece of fashion she wears is noble, gorgeous and unique; her hairstyle and makeup are always meticulous and just right; every outfit she wears from head to toe is not something ordinary people can care about. But she is not happy. She has no love.She doesn't have what even the most ordinary and poorest people can have, but love is the most important pillar in a woman's life.

She brings huge profits to the media. Newspapers with her photos and anecdotes were always in demand, so the paparazzi would not let her die.In this era of holding high the banner of personal privacy, the opposite is precisely the violation of personal privacy.The media talked about her true and false lace news, and readers also bought tabloids about her with undiminished interest.While satisfying desires and loving her, everyone forgets that she is also a woman, a woman without happiness. Just when she was about to find happiness, the candle of life suddenly went out. The mourning of the world.

world of contemplation. Why should a woman live such a perfect and great life? Why should she be selfless? Is this kind of expectation and fantasy the torture shackles that killed Diana and killed women? On the one hand, he gained self-confidence because of being noticed; on the other hand, he lost himself because of being peeped. When she has returned to a free body without the shackles of marriage, why can't people calmly face her intertwined human nature of love and desire, spirit and flesh? Are people grieving for Diana, or grieving the one icon they lost, grieving the cruelty of kindness or the cruelty of kindness that they didn't realize themselves.

In the eyes of the media and the public, Diana was once portrayed as a sinner who was immoral, extravagant and lustful, and in a blink of an eye she became a charming, beautiful, humanitarian spirit and hard-working devotion, so she was highly praised by the people princess. Based on these foundations, those who saw Diana in the media naturally formed a personal relationship with Diana.This kind of relationship is all from the point of view of the person watching, not from Diana's point of view. In fact, is it because of her perfection and greatness that people love Diana? Or, is it because we also see our own lust, conflicts of spirit and flesh, and fragility of human nature in her?

The biggest problem may be not only in imagination, but also in reality; but in terms of people's perception, even in her own relatives and Diana herself, they cannot calmly face some of their own defects, such as gluttony, unstable Emotional, and erotic needs; therefore, not only her own brother, Earl Spencer, emphasized that Diana was a selfless person, but Diana herself had to constantly avoid her own weaknesses, especially the media. interview. We are not perfect, in fact, Diana is not great because of perfection, because of imperfection, people understand her fragility.Her tolerance is so limited, her flaws have nothing to do with right and wrong, good and evil, but they make her a more real person, and making people admire the beauty of human nature, but at the same time accept the fragility and limitation of human nature.

Death is like a halo on the head, just like President Kennedy who was assassinated-Kennedy was certainly not as popular as he was after his death. Diana is dead, but the problems she faced are alive: her soul is at rest, and the world behind her is still restless. Indeed, "Death is not the misfortune of the dead, but the misfortune of the living."These questions do not go away with her death, nor with the reflection of her death, we must live, think and choose.