Chapter 31 3. Passenger in love

Farewell to Gilbert, Diana also officially separated from Charles in 1992, the news media and the public are waiting to see who will be Diana's next flower protector? "Case" James is still a group of A, B, D, and Ding, who are inseparable. They all have similarities with Charles: neat and elegant clothes, humorous conversation, polite manners, thin and capable appearance, etc.This may be a coincidence.Perhaps as Diana's first love, no matter how much unhappiness there was in the marriage, the shadow of the prince still remained in Diana's heart. Hewitt, whom Diana loved the most, had sold her and their love for money.Gilbert, the second person who could offer her comfort, also faded after the phone incident.Where will her road of love lead?

Diana herself would not know.Her beauty, her status, prestige and wealth may not necessarily bring her the happiness of love, on the contrary, the ensuing pressure from the media and the royal family can only put her love in an awkward corner.She has not yet divorced Charles, and she is still his wife, Princess of Wales, and mother of two princes.But she needs love, comfort and encouragement.She is looking for true love, someone who can take care of her for the rest of her life. The third lover who appeared in her life was Oliver Hall.Islamic art and antiques expert Oliver Hall, who had been a friend of Prince Charles for many years, claimed after Diana's death that he was also Princess Diana's lover.

In 1994, she must have fallen in love with Oliver Hall, the handsome, charismatic high-society businessman.In the beginning, Oliver Hall came around Diana in an effort to mend Diana's relationship with Prince Charles.However, after a long time, Oliver noticed that every time he saw Diana, the princess's expression was always different.Later he felt more than once courting gestures from Princess Diana.When Oliver couldn't resist, the two fell deeply in love.In the mid-1990s, Oliver Hall often visited Kensington Palace to fill the emotional vacuum of the princess.When Diana needed a man's big heart, when she needed a man's shoulder to cry on, when she needed a man to dry the tears from her eyes, she would call Oliver.At this time, Oliver Hall will appear in front of Diana, meet her needs, comfort her and help her as much as he can.

Diana's personal doctor said in "Secret Years--Memoirs of Diana's Personal Doctor": "From the beginning of pursuing Oliver, Diana's love was desperate. For many people, the joy of love lies in chasing. If the lover It's less fun if you just put your head down. But Diana wasn't a slut, she was innocent and inexperienced, no matter how beautiful she was." For Oliver, he may have been flattered at first.At the bottom of his heart, all Oliver thinks about is a little flirtation with the most popular woman in the world.He is married, has family responsibilities to bear, and has his own social status and reputation to maintain.Oliver knew full well that an affair with Diana meant living under the stalking of the media.No matter how much he liked Diana, how flattered he was by her attention, he still had other priorities.So in the end he cringes and breaks off their relationship.

So she began to call him frequently, and both parties still begged each other for comfort and understanding.Oliver's wife notified the police of the mysterious phone call, and often changed the phone number.These calls were traced to the palace, but Diana denied knowing it, initially suspecting that a naughty male student was making trouble.Inevitably, stories of such phone harassment and news featuring the princess spread to the public. Sir Will Carlin, captain of the England rugby team, often visited Kensington Palace, where Diana lived.For the presence of Will Carlin, William always felt flattered, because Will was his idol, and he especially admired sports stars like Will.William thought that Will Carlin's frequent visits had something to do with his mother's love of sports.He didn't expect that Karin also had an unusually close relationship with his mother.But the child has his own intuition and sensitivity, that is, whenever Carlin comes to Kensington Palace, his mother will immediately alienate him, spending more time chatting with Carlin and communicating with the two brothers. Much less time, much to Prince William's distaste.

On October 24, 2003, the same day that the "Daily Mirror" published the relevant chapter of "Royal Duties", Burrell told ABC's "20/20" program that Diana loved people of Pakistani descent. Heart surgeon Hasnat Kahn.ABC presenter Barbara Walters asked Burrell if Diana wanted to marry Hasnut, to which Burrell replied: "Yes. She desperately wanted (to marry Hasnut). " Hasnat is a heart surgeon.He worked under Professor Macquarie at the Royal Brown Burton Hospital in Fernham.Diana met him in September 1995 through her acupuncture nurse, Donatopher.Donatopher's husband had heart surgery at Brown Burton Hospital and is recovering.She visited Donatopher's husband every day and established a relationship with the surgeon.Sometimes they would meet on the stairs at the entrance of the hospital, or in the elevator, just as Diana was about to leave.She took all these coincidences as a hint that something important and inevitable was about to happen.In the process of Diana visiting friends, a wonderful "chemical reaction" happened.

According to Burrell: "The two men are very similar in character and worldview. They are a natural pair. They are both very kind humanitarians who only think about how to help those suffering people in the world. Diana worked up the courage that summer and told Hasnat that she wanted to speak to him privately, Burrell said.They have often talked eagerly at Kensington Palace since then. Hasnat was a few years older than her, nine feet tall, a heavy smoker, and a poor diet.Diana's ashtray was always full of his cigarette butts. After August 1996, most of their meetings were in the palace.He had his own house nearby, but it was easier and more private for them to meet in the palace.Diana often kept Hasnat at the palace overnight.Just to be on the safe side, she always borrowed a car from the butler, Paul, to meet Hasnat.The morning after meeting him she was always radiant and unfatigued, as usual.People who are just in love probably don't need a lot of sleep.

They were in frequent contact. If he was at work, Diana would often call his mobile phone and talk about their affection for half an hour.In addition, she often sent Paul Burrell and her close friends to him. Burrell said: "Diana liked a lot of male friends, but it was Hasnat who she really fell in love with. She once got up in the middle of the night and slipped out of Kensington wearing only a fur coat and high heels. I went to the palace to have a tryst with the doctor. I think that apart from his handsome appearance, what attracted Diana more was Hasnat's talent and his enthusiasm for his work. Every time she talked to me about Hasnat, she was very excited , calling him 'a lovely man', 'Mr Superb' and she was madly in love with him."

On a date with Hasnat, if she had time, Diana would make up and dress up with special care.If Hasnat received an emergency call on her cell phone, she would fly away from the palace in minutes, leaving no time for makeup, hairdos and outfits.Only his phone allowed Diana to minimize the amount of time she spent talking to someone on the other line.Before every meeting with him, she seemed to have something stuffed in her stomach, and she had no appetite at all, just like any other woman in love.Their rendezvous was often in a small bar near Hasnat Hospital or in a simple restaurant serving fish and snacks.She drove in circles with extreme care to avoid giving any clues to some of the stalkers.Diana's eating habits are very healthy, which is one of the secrets of her beauty.Naturally, she doesn't share Hasnat's love for southern roast chicken.Instead, she would remind Hasnat that she might need heart surgery soon because of too much greasy food.It wasn't much fun eating fish for dinner and hanging out in a smoky tavern, but Diana loved him and couldn't care less.She loved being with him, and sometimes dreamed of a life where they would be together forever.

Hasnat was particularly fond of modern jazz, and Diana began to appreciate it too.They would often hang out late at night in some dimly lit pub in Camden or Soho.With a wig and modest makeup, she's almost unrecognizable.Combined with her choice to wear some fake casual clothes and be accompanied by a fat Asian guy, it made her and Hasnat going out both safe and exciting.For Diana, who is in love, queuing up like ordinary people is also an exciting and happy thing.She would wait patiently for an hour as long as Hasnat was with her. Diana's Achilles' heel is that she is always insecure about love.Perhaps her broken family since childhood and her broken marriage with Charles made her feel unable to grasp love.When she falls in love with someone, she will ask him to always be by her side and comfort her.If he wasn't around, she would call and ask him to come.No matter how much a man loves a woman, he cannot accept this suffocating love.Diana wouldn't take it, she was a princess, a famous beauty, why would men get impatient with her calls?

She would call Hasnat at inopportune hours and would be upset that he couldn't talk to her because he was having surgery.Hasnat also gets irritable if she spends too much time on the phone with family or friends at Kensington Palace.Diana fantasized about having a family life with him like a normal person, thinking that they would go to the United States or Australia to settle down. Diana introduced her two sons to him within a few months.Both of her sons were very polite to Hasnat, and Hasnat seemed uneasy when William, in particular, maturely told her that as long as his mother was happy, everything was fine.When Hasnat spoke respectfully of the princess, both during her lifetime and after her death, he would say that he never had plans to start a family with her. Diana also visited his family at home in Pakistan in early 1997.The trip led to the end of her relationship with Hastner, and the alleged romance ceased to exist.Hasnat, a married man, was exhausted by the constant calls on his pager at inopportune times.Of course, no matter how much he loves Diana, he is not prepared to bear the pressure of marrying the princess.This relationship is destined not to have a happy ending. In the spring of 1997, they broke up, with Hasnat proposing first.This time the man she loved chose to be loyal to his family instead of summoning up the courage to face the world with Diana.After learning that Dr. Kahn could not sacrifice her family for her, Diana's feelings were hit again, and she even thought about suicide. She said to him: "I can not be a princess, but you still choose to be a doctor."