Chapter 21 Four, where to go

During the Duke and Duchess of York's separation, Charles and Sarah used to discuss marriage together.He also spoke to the Duchess about his marital woes, emphasizing repeatedly that it was almost impossible for him, as the heir apparent to the throne, to have even the slightest desire to separate from Diana.The Duchess of York responded bluntly: "At least, I am worthy of myself." Dissatisfaction with the royal system and sympathy for Diana's situation are included in this sentence.Indeed, both Charles and Diana owed themselves a lot. They were tied to the pillar of marriage in the name of the image of the royal family to show the public, and they couldn't get rid of it.If they are civilians, they can break up peacefully, but they can only perform painfully.

The Queen expressed understanding that their marriage was strained.Marriage between the royal family and outsiders often causes discomfort, but in the past, the people were all minor roles in the royal family.But Diana is different. She is the candidate for the future queen. She has no other choice. Her only career is to be the Princess of Wales.In public, she remains Charles' necessary partner in the execution of national duties and obligations, and must look happy. Their tragedy is just an enhanced version of the tragedy of royal marriage.The failure of marriages between civilians and members of the royal family is not a pair of Charles and his wife. They are the bitter fruit of the impact on the royal family in the course of history.

Since the reign of the Hanoverian dynasty in England, one of the rules and regulations brought by George I from Germany is that the prince must marry a woman of royal blood. If the prince dares to marry a commoner nobleman or a real commoner, His wife and children will not inherit the title and property, and will not even be recognized. European monarchies crumbled in World War I, leaving little left.Finding the right match for the royals is next to impossible.King George V was forced to reform the marriage system, allowing the spouses of his children to come from three-tier aristocratic families: Duke, Marquess, and Earl. Queen Elizabeth became the first commoner to marry a prince in more than two hundred years.

But no matter how noble the civilians were born and married into the royal family, the ending was sour.Except for the Queen Mother and the Queen, the rest of the marriages ended in divorce, such as Princess Margaery and Tony Armstrong, or separation, such as the Duke and Duchess of York, or maintaining the status quo against their will, such as the Dauphine and his wife. Those civilians who entered the royal family were often overwhelmed by the various rules and regulations of the royal family: being followed by the media, acting as vassals of their spouses, unable to find a place to reflect their own value, marriage lost its original meaning, and became a cage for imprisoning people.Diana is just one of them.

On December 5, 1995, British Prime Minister Major met with Queen Elizabeth to discuss the future role of Princess Diana.Because after Princess Diana's marriage with Charles broke down, she proposed to Major that she wanted to be the British Ambassador-at-Large to do her best for humanitarianism. The prime minister was interested in adult beauty, but other officials believed that Diana was incompetent, and she had never received any training in diplomatic etiquette. Over the years, Diana's talent in the diplomatic field has already convinced the always cold and harsh British diplomatic circles.

In November 1995, Princess Diana made a charity visit to Argentina, which had been at war with Britain over the Falkland Islands in 1982, and won a lot of praise, which seemed to add weight to her bid for the role of ambassador code. Opinion polls show that the majority of British citizens are in favor of the princess' choice as ambassador.The opposition believes that smiling and stroking people's heads is not enough, it takes years of experience.Ultimately, Buckingham Palace responded that such sacred missions should belong to the Crown Prince. The royal family and Diana are still out of tune.The difference is that Diana no longer struggles to fit into the royal family, but finds her place in the royal family.The transformation of being anti-client also indicates Diana's transformation from a shy girl to a mature woman.