Chapter 32 【Serial 21】Dear mother-in-law

The mother-in-law is a very lovely old lady. "Never let children feel uncomfortable because of their own existence" is her parenting philosophy. Wherever she is, there will be steadfastness and happiness. Before getting married, my husband took me home to meet my future mother-in-law, pointed at me and said to her: "Mom, this is Song Dandan, I want to marry her." "When will it be knotted?" The old lady looked at me with a smile on her face. "August 25th is her birthday." "Okay, okay, I'll take a look at the imperial calendar." After saying "yes" repeatedly, the old lady walked up to the imperial calendar, "My imperial calendar is very accurate. August 25th; oh; it's not accurate." Turned back. "Okay, that's the day, happy birthday, double happiness."

I stretched my neck and glanced at the imperial calendar. There were three small words next to August 25th: Avoid marrying. After I got married, my mother-in-law would praise me for anything worthy of praise, so that my feet were off the ground, and my requirements for myself became stricter day by day. Sometimes my husband quarreled with her, and I would talk to the old man: "What are you doing? Mom is already so old, we don't change our shortcomings, we have no shortcomings! This is the way it is in this life!" Once, I asked my husband's younger brother and younger siblings to take her to watch my play "Lights of Ten Thousand Houses", and I also gave a ticket to my husband's ex-wife Huang Tao.The siblings happened to meet her when they were going to the bathroom, and when they came back, when the whole family was sitting around eating, the siblings said, "I saw Huang Tao just now, and she also went to the show."

When the mother-in-law got excited, she forgot my existence for a while, and said quickly: "Hey, why don't you tell her that I miss her a lot, let her come and play at home; Beside, stop immediately, turn to me and smile "hehe": "Hi, I'm being polite!" "Mom, see what you said. I welcome her to come and play with me." "Dandan, you really have too much breasts." The mother-in-law is a layman, and she has to throw out some "technical terms" from time to time. "How do you say the chest bag is too empty?" I asked humbly.

"It means that your heart is as wide as the sea;" Every morning, the mother-in-law kowtows many times in front of the Buddha statue to pray for good luck for her children and grandchildren.Sometimes we invite a friend to play mahjong at home, and the next morning, she comes to ask me quietly after kowtowing: "Hey, last night, lost or won?" Whenever I say "win", she will cover her mouth and have a good time, and after the music, she will whisper in my ear: "Tell you, I begged for it." On the contrary, if I say "lose", she will say nothing. He left without turning his face, and then kowtowed.

I give my parents some pocket money every month, and of course my mother-in-law treats me equally.At that time, we hadn't picked up my mother-in-law, so every time I went to visit her was "payment". Once when I went to see my mother-in-law, I left a coat at her house, so I went to pick it up again in a few days.Naturally, I couldn't get my clothes on and left. I chatted with her and ate melon seeds, and then went to the bag to get a tissue to wipe my hands.My mother-in-law saw me put my hand into the bag, her face was beaming with joy, and she clapped her hands "slaps": "My daughter-in-law is going to give me pocket money again!"

"What pocket money are you giving, I just gave it last week, look at your memory." I reproached.She doesn't have the majesty of a mother-in-law to me, and I don't have the politeness of a daughter-in-law to her. "Hey, oh, it's just been a week." One year I was obsessed with stock trading.In the big family room during the day, I guard four computers by myself.My husband came to bring me food at noon, and I was surprised by this posture: I also manage a large company, but you are more like a big leader than me!When I get home, the home page of my computer is always the stock market.

That day my mother-in-law walked into our room to observe the "big leader" stock trading. "Dandan, what do you think of this thing?" I taught her to look at the screen: "Look at these red and green lines. When it goes up, my daughter-in-law will make money. When it droops, my daughter-in-law will lose money." After I finished speaking, I went out, leaving the old lady alone Think there. When I came back later, I heard the ups and downs of chanting sutras coming from the room. When I entered the door, I saw, okay--there is a Buddhist recitation machine on the ground, the speaker is facing the computer, and my mother-in-law is kneeling in front of the computer and kowtowing!