Chapter 37 Main text Scene 10 The quality and temperament of people are exuded

second round Editor's Note: In the second round, the judges asked questions to the remaining 6 contestants.In the end, after a collegial discussion, the three judges unanimously decided to eliminate No. 36 player Pan and Lin.The following are excerpts from Yu Minhong's questions and comments. live question Yu Minhong: No. 32 Dong Keqin, you were very passionate and excited during the first round of the competition. Although I gave you a lot of comments, I was still very moved, because at our age you can still maintain such passion. easy.But today, contrary to that day, you appeared very calm, and even brought your manuscript to read.Obviously, you want to correct the impression you made last time.If you are really calm in the future and get rid of those relatively extreme things, like now, this is not a bad thing.But what I want to say is that it is difficult to change people, and you will not change just because of the comments of the three of us, especially at our age.

Dong Keqin: My personality is definitely difficult to change for a while, but my way of doing things can be improved.Just like that day when you asked a question, I answered you within half a second.Now I'm going to pause and think about what will help me in my future career success.So I am very grateful to the three judges for their comments, which I enjoy for life. Yu Minhong: What you said just now is indeed very reasonable, that is, it is not easy to change people's temper and character, but other than temper and character, self-control can be changed. Today you have a very good performance on this point.Let me tell you the truth again. Two of your subordinates were outside the game that day. After I walked out, your subordinates handed me a business plan and said something at the same time. I think it should arouse your attention. Attention, he said: "My boss is a good man, but he usually has a bad temper, and we dare not talk at all. Teacher Yu, you are right." I think this may be more useful to you than my review.

Dong Keqin: Yes, thank you. Yu Minhong: Hong Guibin, what you have done is immeasurable. I want to ask you, who have you lived with the top 36 players for so long, who do you admire the most?Why do you admire him? Hong Guibin: Among the 36 contestants, the one I admire most is the No. 1 contestant Li An. Yu Minhong: Why? Hong Guibin: Because he is a very real person. Yu Minhong: Where is the truth? Hong Guibin: He never hides or conceals his own desires and pursuits too much. Yu Minhong: Did he treat you to several meals? Hong Guibin: I have never had dinner alone with any of the contestants.

Yu Minhong: What kind of spirit do you think will finally make your medical system work well? Hong Guibin: I think love and gratitude are not only a kind of ability, but also a kind of competitiveness. Yu Minhong: Disk 36 and Lin, I think you still lack a little real passion for training, so I still hope you can show your passion again in a minute. Pan Helin: I think my passion is hard to see.Our vice-principal once told me that you always have endless energy.Going through the whole game, I think you can see my passion. Yu Minhong: In my opinion, human passion is manifested at every moment, and passion is a kind of inner burning flame.For example, No. 4 Fu Dekun is very passionate, at least his passion was ignited at the last moment.

Pan and Lin: Everyone's personality is different. You have your way of expressing passion, and I have my way of expressing passion. I don't have to be equal to you. Yu Minhong: Your passion is in action, right? Pan Helin: Passion is affected by emotions, only the sense of mission is always in my heart. Yu Minhong: Then I would like to ask No. 23 Huang Yanze, you have been with Pan and Lin for so long, do you think he has passion?How does his passion compare to yours? Huang Yanze: I didn't see it. Yu Minhong: There is a hand raised behind, No. 34 Zhang Zongxin. Zhang Zongxin: I want to explain that Pan and Lin share the same dormitory with me.I am a person who prefers to sleep. After I am busy with work, my biggest hobby is to rest.I did not see Pan and Lin yelling, saying that I am strong and I am great. He really didn’t yell, but I know that every day when I sleep, he is still writing blogs and reading books. When I woke up one morning, he was already sitting on the bed with his laptop open and working. I think this is the best passion, and I want to tell the truth.

Yu Minhong: Actually, you confuse a concept, you confuse diligence with passion.That's not passion, at least in my opinion. Yu Minhong: He Xinhao on the 12th, may I ask, what are the advantages and disadvantages of doing things after the 80s? He Xinhao: Actually, I think there are a lot of unfairness in starting a business born in the 1980s. For example, when I first started my business, I never dared to say that I am born in the 1980s, because others may say that you are inexperienced, immature, and professionally unclear. , so what should we do?I don't think there is any way to do this, but you can do one thing at a time.

Yu Minhong: What about your strengths? He Xinhao: In terms of advantages, at least our future life is still very long. Yu Minhong: This is not just your advantage. The real advantage of the post-80s generation is that they can get rid of the shackles of tradition and establish a fair mechanism.The reason for establishing a fair mechanism is very simple. It is because the post-80s generation is in charge of others, typical individualism.I know many people born in the 1980s. A typical characteristic is that they can bring fairness to the table.I think the fair system that removes unspoken rules that is really on the table in China is likely to be produced in the hands of the post-80s generation.So that's your biggest advantage, you know?

Yu Minhong: The last two, No. 24 Zhao Jiabin and No. 6 Zu Zheng, both of you are "returnees", Zu Zheng and Zhao Jiabin, I remember your names.If you fail to start a business in China, will you go back to the United States?How many times do you fail before you go back, back into your turtle shell? Zhao Jiabin: I don’t know how many times there will be failures, and I don’t want to have so many failures. I just said that if I fail, I still have to weigh the interests of my family first. If I think returning to the United States is good for my family, I will return. Go to America, if I think it is better for the family in China, I will stay in China.

Zu Zheng: One thing I am very grateful to is my wife, she is very supportive of my business, when I returned to China about 10 months later, she brought my child and the whole family back, so I don't have this worry.Every startup is a kind of learning, so after my first failure, I will continue to grow and learn.I believe that as long as China's development maintains the current trend, as long as there is room for my talents in the country, there are still good opportunities for development, and I can make use of my own advantages, I will always stay here. Comments by Yu Minhong It is a ruthless fact that Lin and Lin were eliminated on the 36th set. In fact, I really want to keep a trainer in it, so as not to say that I am partial and afraid of competing with you.After the competition is over, I can discuss your training model with you, and I will help you give pointers to make you as big as possible and then sell to New Oriental, or go public independently.You are a person who does things, and you have never done training experience, but you have done this training.But you lack a little courage to be straightforward. When the judges ask you questions, you always want to bypass them and focus on your own strengths. For example, you always emphasize your gratitude and hard work. In fact, this Things do not need you to say, why?Because the quality and temperament of people are exuded, you know.Your roommate gave you a good judgement and I can sense that you are definitely a hard worker and a very organized person.

In my opinion, your shortcomings are: first, your personal charm and way of doing things are not enough, and you have not reached the mind to accommodate the talents of the world.You can recruit all your trainers from outside, but you must have strong players under your command, even stronger people than you.If you have no one under your command, you won’t be able to do much. Second, although you have repeatedly emphasized that you have passion, your true love for training has not yet been shown. I can feel that you still regard it as a profitable thing. In the future, you should take this training as a supplement and deficiency to China's formal MBA teaching, just like New Oriental regards foreign language training as a supplement and deficiency to China's formal foreign language education.In addition, when you usually deal with employees and friends, including us, you must show more sincerity, frankness, straightforwardness, and even a little roughness in a certain sense, so that we can feel the truth, so that We'll send our workforce to you for training.

Every river has its own different life curve, but every river has the same dream, that is to run to the sea. third round Editor's Note: In the third round, the remaining 5 contestants each proposed who they think should be eliminated, and stated the reasons.According to the overall performance of each contestant, after a collegial discussion, the three judges unanimously decided to eliminate No. 32 Dong Keqin.The following is Yu Minhong's final summary comments. Yu Minhong: In fact, I am also very touched by being with you these few days.I haven't been around someone with such entrepreneurial enthusiasm and dedication to their careers in a long time.So in this sense, everyone is considered a success. It doesn't matter if you are 36, 12, or the top 5. As I said just now, the ranking is not important, the important thing is that you can achieve yourself in the end.Each of us is here to pursue our own career, and each of us has a relatively clear career goal, so each of us is also pursuing the perfection of our own personality and the way of doing things.We all know that career and personality are inseparable, and being a person and doing things are also inseparable. I have such a metaphor, that is, every river has its own different life curves. The curves of the Yangtze River and the Yellow River are absolutely different, but every river has the same dream, which is to run to the sea.So no matter how many twists and turns the Yellow River has gone through and how many obstacles it has bypassed, it finally flows into the sea.The Yangtze River does not have as many bends as the Yellow River, but it finally broke through the cliffs and finally rushed to the sea, but in a different way.The Yangtze River is the way to split the mountain to open the road, and the Yellow River is the way to go around.This requires us in the process of being a person and doing things, when we encounter difficulties, no matter whether we rush over or go around, as long as we can get over it. Today, the most important thing is not whether you are a river or not.You are all rivers, but the life trajectory of each river is different. Some may disappear as they flow, become polluted by themselves as they flow, and disappear into the middle of the desert as they flow.I hope that everyone can make their lives flow like a dream, like the Yangtze River and the Yellow River, flow to the end of their dreams, enter the vast ocean, broaden their lives and broaden their horizons.But this does not mean that if you want to flow, you can flow through it. There must be a kind of spirit in it. There is no doubt that this is the spirit of water.Our life is sometimes like silt, you also flow forward with the water, but due to your personality flaws, regression in the face of difficulties, or timidity, you may slowly become like silt, It settled down.Once your precipitation went down, perhaps you can't try hard for advancement again, but you can't see sunshine forever however. When you settle down, the silt and sand on it keep pressing you down, and in the end you will be dark, so I suggest that no matter what your life is like now, you must have the spirit of water, even if it is polluted, you can Wash yourself.Water has a self-cleaning function, as long as you flow, you can run towards your dreams, accumulate your own strength like water, and constantly break through obstacles.When you find that the opportunity is not enough, you can accumulate your own thickness. When the opportunity comes one day, you will be able to gallop into the sea and achieve your own life. Solving doubts about teaching On the evening of March 28, 2008, in light rain, Yu Minhong walked 1.5 kilometers to the studio to participate in the recording of the program.The theme of this program is the employment issue of college students, which is widely concerned by all walks of life. More than 100 college students came to the scene, including those who are about to graduate and looking for jobs, and some who have graduated but have employment problems.Yu Minhong was invited to give a speech on employment issues and answered questions from college students on the spot.