"It's just that it's all over. It is said that this is a sentence that Meng Xiaodong often said in his later years.She doesn't say "it's all over", she says "it's just all over".If she says "everything is in the past", then people can feel that she is indeed calm and indifferent to the people and things in the past.However, she added the word "just" before "it's all over".This may be her unintentional and non-deliberate doing, but it reveals that the secrets in her heart are still intricate. "Just" contains too many unspeakable things. It can be understood as "no matter..., just...", or "even if..., just..."; it can be understood as "despite..., just..." ...".Objectively speaking, everything behind "regardless of", "even if", and "despite" has passed away; subjectively, it has settled in the depths of her heart.They made up her life, so, in her whole life, it seemed that she couldn't do it even if she didn't want to worry about it.

For a long time, the name Meng Xiaodong has remained in the memory of many people. It is not just a generation of celebrities, but a tragic woman who suffered from the legacy of feudalism in the old era and went through ups and downs.Many people shed tears of sympathy for her being a concubine twice and having no children in her life.Therefore, whenever Meng Xiaodong is mentioned, there is always another person's name, Mei Lanfang.Some people say that Mei Lanfang started Meng Xiaodong's tragic life; others say that Meng Xiaodong left a shadow on Mei Lanfang's innocent life.These statements all have a strong subjective consciousness and are unavoidably biased.

Mei Lanfang chose Meng Xiaodong, and Meng Xiaodong also chose Mei Lanfang.This is their choice.If Meng Xiaodong chooses Mei Lanfang and the ending is tragic, then the deep-seated reason may be due to the fact that she is a woman, a woman who lived in the old times, a woman who lived in the old times but chose to sing operas for a living woman.All this made her fate irreversible.There is a saying that seems to have become a classic: character determines destiny.In other words, choice also determines destiny.