Chapter 47 Break up with Wang Jing

She should have nothing with Wang Jing, and her personality does not match, and she is a strong woman, she has her own career - singing.This is a misunderstanding, a mistake.Although they lived together peacefully for ten years, it still didn't work in the end.The final result was expected a long time ago, but it has been maintained for many years, mainly because of the son. In the end, I was very sorry for my son. I divorced Wang Jing when he was in elementary school. The fact that my son went to primary school stimulated me a lot.I very much hope that he will go to Beijing Primary School, but Beijing Primary School has relatively high requirements. According to his conditions, he does not meet the requirements and needs to "go through the back door".I said hello to the school, but I also want my son to take the test.

Ordinarily, when the son went to the exam, Wang Jing, who should be his mother, should accompany him.But she didn't go, so I had to take it with me. I can't take care of children, it's not my strong point, it's very stimulating to me, and it also makes me very angry. At first, I stood and waited outside the door like other parents, and then the school let me into the building, and other parents were not allowed to enter.I took my son to each classroom to take the exam. After the exam, the principal personally showed me where the students live and eat.In fact, no matter how well my son does in the exam, he will accept it. They are looking at my face, otherwise they will not show me around.

I will also go to parent-teacher meetings in the future. Although I have responsibilities, she also has responsibilities for the children. Things like this happen a lot, and it makes me feel very irritable and uncomfortable. There are also some conflicts that happen to my students.At that time, Chang Hao, Wang Lei, and Zhou Heyang would come to my house to learn chess every week. This was my job and my obligation.Wang Jing didn't like them coming very much. When they came, they didn't entertain people, they didn't say anything, and they made people look bad.When you come home, you must at least express your welcome. This is also human nature!As a result, my students were trembling and embarrassed when they entered the door. Fortunately, they didn't care about anything as soon as they entered the realm of Go.But the number of times is too many, and it also makes me very angry.

In addition, I have a circle of friends, some officials, celebrities, people of high status, party and dinner together, if I ask her to go, she won't go, it doesn't give me any face. Some people also told me some of her problems outside, such as bad temper, domineering in the group, all bad things.I can't figure it out either, but it's still uncomfortable to hear. Although we broke up in the end, she was still helpful to me at that time, not completely bad.When I divorced Kong Xiangming, public opinion was very unfavorable to me, and I moved to a new house. My ability to live was in a mess. I still relied on her. Although there were disharmony, it was good at the beginning. I am very grateful to her.

At the end of 2000 we broke up relatively peacefully and amicably.After the divorce, many people don't know, including the Weiqi world. From the point of view of Go, Wang Jing can't help much, maybe even a disservice.But there is still some care for my life. I can't speak ill of her, but I should be grateful.It's just that they are out of character. She is very concerned that I should listen to her, and she should not listen to me.This is totally wrong.When I was with some friends she didn't know, she didn't even go. In 1999, Jin Yong took his wife to Yunnan to participate in the first "Yanhuang Cup" Go tournament. This was initiated by me, Jin Yong and Lin Haifeng. Normally, I should take her there, but I didn't bring her, and I didn't even mention it. I was afraid of her. Shame on me.At that time, the rift was already deep, and I would not dare to take her there on such an occasion.

We had fights, too, over trivial matters, and I found out she was in menopause.She also eavesdropped on my phone calls, no matter what I have, she can't eavesdrop!Our home phone is connected. When I make a call here, she can pick it up and listen to it.Once she said that I was talking to someone this and that, and I was very shocked, knowing that she had eavesdropped on my phone call.It also made me very angry.I don't ask any questions about her finances. Thinking about it now, I still helped her a lot back then, such as solo concerts, inviting Vice Chairman Ah Pei, presenting flowers... I did a lot of things for her.

When my son was in middle school, he had problems again. He wanted to go to a better middle school, but he didn't pass the exam.I specifically went to the middle school in Tong County to find the principal, and he got his wish.In the future, I will cover all the expenses of going to school. As I mentioned earlier, Wang Jing was not treated very well by my family. We used to visit my parents’ house together during the Spring Festival, but we haven’t been there for a year or two.She doesn't usually go to see her parents, and I take my son back.It can't be all her fault, people don't want to see her, and she feels mentally burdened, which is understandable.

Her mother lives in Beijing. I used to visit her mother often, but she stopped visiting my mother, and I stopped visiting her mother. This is a bit of "diplomatic reciprocity". Once Wang Jing suddenly asked me, should we invite the CCTV people to dinner.She refers to us including Wang Gang.I was very surprised and asked her why she invited them to dinner?She said that after Wang Gang left CCTV, he was afraid of affecting his relationship with them, so he would not be able to appear on CCTV's programs in the future.I was very angry when I heard it.When Wang Gang thought of CCTV, he asked me for help, so I asked the relevant leaders.Relevant leaders attached great importance to this matter, and even specifically talked to Wang Jing to understand Wang Gang's situation.When he felt that Wang Gang was a talent, he recommended it to the director of CCTV.At that time, CCTV did not have an entry quota for the time being, so he was still allowed to enter under such circumstances and became the host.Later, he resigned from CCTV because CCTV stipulated that hosts cannot act in TV dramas.I won't talk about this decision. Everyone has their own aspirations, but you have to say hello to me and have an explanation. I didn't know it until Wang Jing asked me to invite me to dinner, and it took a long time. How did this happen? ?In case the relevant leaders and the director of CCTV ask me what to say!I think you call me for help when you need me, and don't even say hello when you don't need me, so I'm angry.