Chapter 32 Section 4: The secret of burying the master—the wife of the master is the only weakness of the master

Many people said that I was too arrogant on stage, and always made fun of Master when I had nothing to do. In fact, in our cross talk business, we must first understand that there is no big or small on the stage, and there are rules in the audience. We must be able to joke with each other.It’s not that we’re cynical, it’s our industry habits. The art of cross talk comes from life and is higher than life. It is a sublimation of life itself, so we need to keep teasing. In our opinion, teasing is actually a kind of optimism. Upward attitude towards life. China is an ancient cultural country with a long history and profound culture. Our speech is not very free. I am not saying that there are any restrictions, but that people are shackles from their hearts. There are various suspicions between each other. Make jokes like this and that.I think, from a good point of view, it’s a sign that we Chinese are too cultured. We have to avoid a lot of scruples when speaking. You can’t say this, you can’t say that, and you always have to think twice before speaking. If I joked with him, would he be upset?If we can let go of our bodies, I think everyone can let go of their thinking and face life with a more relaxed and positive attitude.

So why can't some people take a joke?He will be anxious with you if you are joking, including in our cross talk circle, there are also people who can’t take a joke, that is, his attitude towards life is not optimistic enough, not uplifting enough, and he values ​​certain things too much. To put it bluntly, he has no self-esteem. Performance.I think it would actually be better to let go of self-esteem. Don’t always think about whether this is hurting my self-esteem. If you always think this way, it’s because he has too much low self-esteem, and he has no self-esteem at all. He is too eager to get it. , If a person can put down and look at some things, and have more jokes, that is, to make fun of life, then his life will feel much more relaxed.

These are all instilled in me by my master during my art studies. Maybe not all of them are correct, but they are very helpful to me.When I first went to Master’s house, I also thought I was crazy. There were some things I was holding on to, and if I couldn’t get off the stage, Master would mercilessly and comprehensively suppress me. There is a saying I often say in interviews: “Xiaowei (He Yunwei) ) is not wrong, and gold is not right.” I am also a disciple, but the master really doesn’t show mercy at all. I am often the one who is scolded the worst by the master among the many disciples. The master said to me more than once: "Just to let you know that you have to have the capital to be crazy. Before you have capital, you are nothing."

Master's words are harsh, but they make sense.Yes, without capital, it means not being qualified. When I am qualified, I can easily tease Master and us on stage. This is mutual. My Master is worthy of respect, just because of him He has real skills and will not show any displeasure because of my smashing. He is a very entertaining person.Even when we are in the audience, I respect him because he is my master, and he must be polite when addressing me, but when we get along in private, we still smash each other, which has become a habit.I often say that when we are in the background, no one else exists, and every word we speak is witty, and whoever comes to the front will be slammed. , humor is this, not happy, then you deserve to die.

Don't look at the master's training of us disciples to be very logical. Sometimes individual disciples make mistakes and the punishment is very severe, but the master is always very loving and gentle to the master's wife. This is not because he is afraid of his wife, but because he trusts her. Many things I entrusted her to take care of everything, from the management of the garden to his personal daily life, and my wife took care of it alone. Of course, my wife did take care of me very well. I was good at everything, everything was covered. Once I saw a cut on Master's head, so I asked a lot: "What's wrong, Master, which one is so careless?" Master looked at me and said nothing, and I immediately understood the general idea in my heart, so I continued to provoke: "Look, it's all scratched, Master, aren't you in a hurry with him?" Master still didn't speak, and gave me a blank look, already knowing that I said it on purpose.I quickly acted like I had suddenly realized, and said loudly to everyone: "So it's my wife! No wonder you, Master..." The master gritted his teeth and looked at me, but he didn't answer back. up.