Chapter 34 Chapter 5 True Love Doesn't Care About Time

In the television industry, there is a tacit fact that men don’t worry about getting married, and women don’t worry about getting married. Therefore, most people in this industry are definitely late in marriage and childbearing, but I am an exception.Not to mention being in the TV circle, even if you throw me among my peers, I am also a person who got married and had children quite early. The love affairs and lives of public figures are often rendered very mysterious by the media, and even suddenly become so-called "fresh information".Many friends were surprised to hear that I was already married, and when they heard that I had a baby son, they all thought I was joking.

Fortunately, when I got married, I was just an ordinary person, and the love with my wife was not a vigorous Qiong Yao drama, let alone a shocking and peerless love.We have never experienced the so-called premarital phobia, and we have never considered this or that. We came together more because it happened naturally.Speaking of it, my wife born in the 1980s has been with me for many years, and she is my biggest supporter regardless of whether I am in adversity or good times. This is the best interpretation of our love. When I was young, I occasionally felt that registering a marriage was nothing more than getting a legal document. When people signed their names and stamped it with a steel stamp, it proved that the "you and me" of two people had officially become "us".

From graduating in 2001 to registering in 2006, my wife and I have been together for five full years. Although both of us were thinking about getting married at that time, neither of us was willing to talk about it, let alone discussing about putting on a show. A so-called romantic proposal. Rather than thinking about how to propose and get married together, my wife and I prefer to think about the future together. This beautiful habit has been developed very early.I remember one time, after she had dinner at my house, I took her home by bus, walked slowly all the way to the bus station, and came up with our "1st Five-Year Plan" in "crazy thinking": in the next five years, we will buy a A small car, and then buy a house of their own.Thinking about it now, what a realistic and ordinary vision it was, the same as every young person around me.

Although marriage is a matter of course for us, but when it comes to getting the certificate, it is quite dramatic.At that time, we partnered with another couple to run a clothing store. Because we were two couples, we chose a very "hypocritical" name: Love4—a symbol of four lovers. Because it is a partnership business, legally it needs to be notarized. The other party said: "If you are not married, you have to get a three-party notarization. How troublesome!" I thought, one more thing is worse than one less thing. So I called and explained to my girlfriend at the time, and finally concluded with the words that I kept in my heart for many years and never said: "Then let's get married!" Without hesitation or embarrassment, she He answered me with one word very readily: "Okay!" In this way, our marriage registration was put on the agenda.

Then one day, when I came home from the location shooting, my father had already gone to work. As soon as my head touched the pillow, my wife called: "If you are free later, let's go to register." Those days we all I was very busy, and it was not easy to meet two people who were free, so I agreed without even thinking about it. I quickly got up from the bed, found the household registration book very skillfully and put it in the bag, and then took the prepared account book from the closet. He took out his good shirt, put it on, tied his tie, and went out with his hairstyle from the previous day's recording before washing his hair.

After we met, we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau. When we went there, we found that all the registration places were on the second floor. To be precise, the divorce registration office was on the left and the marriage registration office was on the right.I suddenly had the illusion of "going left and going right", and felt that the narrow passage was full of fairy tales written by Jimmy. Wake up from the boring literature and art reverie, turn right quickly and enter the marriage registration office.I thought there would be a lot of people, but it was surprisingly quiet. There were only two pairs in front. We didn’t have to queue at all. We just filled out the form and showed the relevant certificates and certificates to the clerk. It didn’t take long.Really rare!

Anyone who was married at that time knew that the singleness certificates of both parties were required for registration, and the singleness certificates had a time limit.Coincidentally, that day happened to be the last day of validity of my wife's single certificate. If she missed the time, she would have to go out of town to re-issue the certificate, and we would have made a trip in vain. Everything went well, we signed the letter calmly, not feeling excited at all, but as if we had finally completed a task, we breathed a sigh of relief. It has been "illegal" for so long, and now it is finally legal, which can be regarded as an explanation to myself and the other party.

Many people may think that my wife is too "honest" and hardly poses any problems to me, which is unbelievable.But what I like is her gentle and gentle temperament, which I think is the most precious thing in this era. I thought I could get the red book at that time, and then I hurried home, but I didn't expect that the Civil Affairs Bureau would have a ceremony to get a certificate, just like getting married in the West, you have to take an oath.The staff led us to the swearing-in platform, and saw two pairs of footprints on the platform, one big and one small, I stood on the big one, she stood on the small one, and the staff stood opposite us.After the long vows were over, I saw the staff glance at me and ask me, "Would you like to?" "I do!" I blurted out.Then he asked his wife the same question and got the same answer. "Okay, now I announce that you are officially a legal couple!" Then the marriage certificate was issued to us.

We held our marriage certificate in our hands, and were about to leave when we were stopped again: "By the way, this photo costs 15 yuan. Do you want it? If you want it, you can take it. If you don't want it, we will destroy it." !” I hurriedly turned around and took out 15 yuan.It doesn't matter if the photo is taken well or not, it's a commemoration anyway, besides, the word "ruin" is too creepy!Now think about it, this staff member, you are really a marketing master! After all the formalities were finally completed, the two of us went downstairs with a red book, and it was only when we were walking on the road that we realized that we should announce the happy news to our family.I took out my mobile phone and called my father, pretending to be pleasantly surprised: "Dad, we have registered to get the certificate today!"

An exclamation came from the other end of the phone: "Ah? What are you talking about? Registration?!" "Yes indeed!" "How did you choose today?" "Oh, it doesn't matter what day it is! Registering is not doing business, and when we do business, we will choose a good day!" I thought my father blamed us for not notifying him in advance, but he was even more excited: "No, then You can't choose today either!" I was a little impatient: "Dad, don't think about it too much, someday you won't be able to register..." Before he finished speaking, his father said helplessly on the other end: "I don't blame you for registering without checking the date, but don't let it be today, today is Qingming Festival!"

Alas!Marriage is the end of love?Well, my wife and I started creating a performance art piece that day, and it was finished the day we went to the grave!