Chapter 34 get along with son

I have always believed that children are meant to be spanked.When disciplining children, parents hope to prevent them from taking some detours, especially like I made some mistakes when I was young, and now I don’t want them to repeat the same mistakes, so that they can face life better.But if you just talk, then he is actually not very good at listening. When he finds out that he has caused trouble at a certain age in the future, it will be too late. Look at our generation, me, Yuen Biao, and Sammo Hung, we will not drop a grain of rice on the table when we eat.When we were young in drama school, when we dropped a grain of rice, Master's big mouth would come over.Seeing the old man is always respectful, even the shoes are always neatly arranged, but you see Jaycee Jaycee always kicks the shoes away once or twice when he comes home, and then walks around wearing white socks forever , New white socks, the bottom will be black immediately.why?Because he didn't wash the socks himself, he didn't know how difficult it was to wash them.If asked to wash it himself, he would not do it.I always wash my socks by myself. I know that white socks are difficult to wash, so every time I wear them, I try not to touch the dirty things. I wash them with soap and they are clean.

Nowadays, children often don't listen to discipline, they should be beaten, but seeing those child abusers on TV is too outrageous.When Jaycee Jaycee was very young, I hit him once, the blow was very heavy, I lifted it up and threw it on the sofa.That time he and his mother were frightened, and I regretted it myself, thinking that I would beat him to death if this happened, how could I do this?After thinking about it, I never beat him again, and I made a promise to them. Times have changed now, why don't you slap Jaycee Jaycee?People can sue you. If we could sue before, everyone would sue our master. But at that time, there was no way to complain. When we saw the master, we would tremble with fear.

Jaycee Jaycee has always been afraid of me, and he is very afraid when he hears his father's voice and instructions.He stayed with me less often since he was a child. At that time, his mother went to the United States to give birth to him in order to avoid reporters.When he was by my side, he always saw me at 2 o'clock in the middle of the night when he was a child.He went to high school and college in the United States, and he does things very much like Americans.Every time I see him with great joy, he always acts like a fool, and I can't stand it after two days.I just want someone to punish him, tell him to stand or sit or sit, and not to move around like this when talking, but in this way, he can't even speak.

When he was young, I often bought some domestic TV series for him to watch, sent him "Kangxi Dynasty" to watch, and sometimes showed him my charity activities, and told him some things through these, maybe you face to face He may not listen to what I tell you, but when I'm not around, he can see these things and it will have some effect.When I come back next time, my walking and talking will not be as swaying as before. A long time ago, before Hong Kong returned to the motherland, I once told him that Hong Kong people are miserable, and there are often many identities in a family.For example, in our family, I am from Hong Kong, my wife is from Taiwan, my father is from Australia, and my son is from the United States. There is no feeling of a country as the backing.Many people in Hong Kong were like this at that time.He may have kept my words in mind. The last time he came back from the United States, he told me, Dad, I want to return my nationality to the US government.Then my son gave up his American citizenship and became a Chinese citizen. I felt very relieved and felt that my method of discipline was effective.

How did I teach him things when he was a kid?They all cooperated with Lin Fengjiao. Seeing him staying not far from us, I pretended to chat with his mother: "Oh, so-and-so's son died." She said: "Ah! How could it be? He is very young!" "The car drove He was in a car accident because he was driving too fast. His mother cried so much that she went to the hospital..." "Oh...what are you doing so fast?" I would notice that he was listening beside me at such times.We have such an education method, I will not point to his nose and say, you have to remember, don't do anything, this effect is not good.

Sometimes I also learn from others, such as Li Ka-shing, who taught children that you must be independent and make money by yourself.When I go out with Jaycee Jaycee, I will take the first class, let him go to the economy class, and tell him, when you have money, you can sit in the front. I have loved tidying up my room all my life, and I can't see that the room is messy; Fang Zuming is the opposite of me, his room is always a mess.If I was at home, I would run to his place to help him clean up, picking things up, picking things up, and I would go in and have a look at the corners where no one went.At that time, there was an attic in the place where he lived. There was nothing in it, and no one went in. It was very dirty. One day I was bored and cleaned the entire attic. The attic can be used as one bedroom and one living room.

At this time, I saw a box in the corner, opened it, and saw that there was a rope for climbing in it. I wondered, what did Fang Zuming use this thing for?After thinking about it for a while, I went to his window and looked at the brick wall outside. Sure enough, there were traces of abrasion on it. When the rope was put down, it was just the right length.This kid must have gone home early at night, told his mother to rest, and after his mother fell asleep, he slipped out to play again. What did I do the next day?I called Wu Gang from the home-making class to my home: "Look, is this rope stable?" Wu Gang tried it: "Brother, it is stable, because this is the rope he asked us to take..." I asked again Wu Gang, you taught him the safety rope, has he learned it yet?Wu Gang said, learned.So I feel relieved, at least it is safe.I put his rope back in place, where he had put it.Afraid that one of his buckles was not strong, I secretly replaced him with a titanium alloy buckle, deliberately changing it to the same color.Well, I took a look at Wu Gang and said, don't tell him I know, just pretend I didn't say it.

Up to now, Fang Zuming didn't know about it.If he reads this book, he will probably feel scared and smile knowingly. When I grow up, he will never work hard enough in my eyes. I always feel that I am more diligent than him, and I hope he can be like me.I worked all day and continued to run when I got home at night. When I got back, I saw that he had gone to bed early, and it was only after nine o'clock.I was very upset: "Sleep now? Is it to sleep until midnight and then go out to play!" His mother said: "No, I just came back from taking pictures and I am tired." I went for a run angrily .Sometimes I really want him to follow me to see what I do all day. I also work all day. I can’t wait to hold eight meetings and sit until eleven or twelve o’clock in the evening. It depends on the script.

When he was young, I was in charge of supporting him to study and go to school. He didn’t need to worry about whether he would have enough to eat, whether he could pay the tuition fee, and whether there would be someone to pick him up when he went out. I would arrange all of these.But later I regretted that I shouldn't have given him such a good life as soon as I came up, so that he didn't know what it means to be poor, and he wouldn't work hard for his tomorrow.I saw that Lang Lang and Li Yundi played the piano so well, so I bought him a piano, but he had never played it.I saw Wang Leehom playing the violin so well, so I bought him a violin, but he never played it.I saw that Kobe Bryant played basketball well, so I made a basketball stand for him. He likes this, and it is also his strong point. He plays basketball very well.Later I found out that maybe I was wrong. I wanted him to be Wang Leehom, Lang Lang, and Kobe Bryant, and asked him to be so high, but I didn't figure out whether this was his interest.He likes basketball and music, he shoots the 3-pointer well, and the songs he wrote as a teenager are very thoughtful, those are his interests, and I can't force my ideas on him.Especially seeing how Will Smith is helping his son and daughter, I feel that I should not be so demanding all the time.

I am not a good father, but I consider myself a responsible father.When my son is in good times, I will educate him severely; when he is in adversity, he made a mistake and should be punished. If he recognizes the mistake and corrects it, I will stand behind him and use my family The power to support him and accompany him to tide over the difficulties.