Chapter 36 The Second Dimension of a Woman: Emotional Attraction

After a woman has had some experience dating men, she begins to discover that she likes some men more than others.With this feeling, her discernment of men increased, which enabled her to pick out some of them for dates.On the first level, she's only dating a guy because she doesn't know if she likes that type of guy, but he's interested in her and she doesn't resent him.Now, she has a higher standard.When she feels that she doesn't like a guy very much, she will reject his date.Eventually, as her discernment grows, she will naturally be attracted to the men she likes.Even without knowing a certain man, she can already predict in advance that he is not the type she likes, so she won't date and associate with him, wasting time.At this time, she will be attracted by a more suitable man, and will also attract a more suitable man.

A woman at this level will be attracted by a man's personality.She usually opens up to men of different types and personalities.Often through trial and error, she eventually finds a certain quality in a man that best matches her.By the side of such a man, she can be herself at ease, without pretense or forbearance.In a way, the better we feel about ourselves, the faster we can move through the several levels of discernment. As the saying goes: "Each carrot and eggplant has its own love".Some women are deeply attracted to men who are shy, while others may be attracted to men who are responsible and valiant; some women prefer men who are relatively quiet, while others appreciate men who have a lot of friends or a good sense of humor.Some women love men who are confident and calm, while others like men who are unpretentious and casual.There will never be a fixed formula that can make a man infinitely charming and conquer all women.Through their own dating experience, women can finally identify the type of man they want, so as to avoid too much entanglement with men who are not very interested in them.