Chapter 33 The third level of men: spiritual attraction

By continually exercising his discernment and dating only women who appeal to him both physically and emotionally, a man begins to develop mental attraction.When a woman piques a man's interest, he doesn't just focus on her body, but wants to learn more about who she really is.He doesn't want to just be friends with her, he wants to go further with her.On the third level, her personality also attracted him.He was fascinated by the way she thought, excited by how she felt, influenced by the way she lived. On the third level, the aspects of her character that were most luminous and attractive to her brought out the best in his own.It could be any point in a woman's character: her friendliness, her strength, her competence or her intelligence, her transparency, her generosity; it could be her honesty, openness, and integrity; or her Patience, courage, and persistence; and her self-reliance, competence, and grace; and her passion, love, and spirituality.There is no one particular quality, or combination of qualities, that is universal enough to make a woman attractive to all men.

Some men like women who exude mature charm, but some men are infatuated with girls who are eccentric.It may be a woman's inner richness and mature wisdom that make her shine in this man's eyes; It may be a woman's selfless generosity that makes her so attractive, or her tenderness and devotion that enable her to share more with a man.The degree of development of a woman's personality does not affect her attractiveness to men.There is no distinction between good and bad personal colors.When a woman is herself, she is the most attractive woman, and this is the attraction from the spiritual level.

At the third level, a man also initially feels that many women are attractive to him, but only a few stand out.Only a small percentage of women had his favorite personality.By gradually getting to know and associating with these few women, he was able to improve his discernment successfully and effectively.Simply feeling physical attraction and friendship is no longer the primary need.Now, this woman must be just as interested in him.