Chapter 30 Men feel physical attraction first

When a man meets his soul mate, there is almost always an instant spark, drawn to a woman's physical form from the start.When a man chooses left and right among the flowers, and there are many flowers in front of him, but he seems to have no choice, it shows that he does not understand the importance of establishing standards.He just obeys the sexual instinct of what he sees and touches, and he has not learned to identify the people he chooses.When a man is blindly engaged in the game of chasing women who he knows are not right for him, he is temporarily unable to feel physical attraction from a potential soul mate.

The more a man pursues a woman he doesn't love, the less physically attracted he becomes to a woman he might truly love.By improving the ability to distinguish from love experiences, men can find out which woman is the most attractive to them, thus taking a step closer to true love. The more a man blindly pursues women he doesn't love, the more he loses the ability to feel physically attracted to a woman he might love The more discernment we have about who we want to continue our relationship with and develop a relationship, the closer we are to our soul mate and ultimately to our true love.Only a lucky few hit the bull's-eye after a few experiments, while most of us go through the normal process of trial and error.Through repeated self-adjustment, we eventually meet the right person.This process of increasing discernment develops in predictable stages.By understanding the four levels of discernment, you can feel just how close your soul mate is to you.Below, let's explore these layers in detail.Start with men, then women.