Chapter 18 when men can't admit

From the above example, we see that Richard was completely incapable of love in his past relationships.Jason, a handsome guy of thirty-two, was dating six women at the same time.Although he saw beautiful women frequently, he still couldn't make up his mind and hesitated.He always thinks, "There are so many beautiful women, how can I choose easily?" It is really difficult for him to choose one of the many beautiful women, because once he enters the second stage with someone (Uncertain stage), he can't wait to advance to the fourth stage (Intimacy stage). He may spend weeks or months dating a woman.Once they start to really get to know each other and have some substantial intimacy, his doubts arise, "Do I really love her? Is she the only one for me?" Certainty, he quickly chooses one of his previously dated girlfriends to start a new romance, and as a result, he never commits to a phase of exclusivity with any woman.By constantly going back and forth between these two phases of dating, he cannot, and never will, make up his mind to settle down.

It is true that it is not advisable for Jason to date so many women at the same time, but those women who went on dates also made a principled mistake.They agreed to have sex with Jason even before they were sure that he was only dating them.In fact, these beautiful women made a common-sense mistake: women pursue men more than men pursue women. And when Jason enters the stage of intimacy with a woman, he will discuss with her in detail the problems that have arisen in his life, even including his various questions and confusions when interacting with other women.This kind of seemingly intimate private conversation is actually extremely unsuitable for talking to your current girlfriend.This kind of discussion will make the man more confused, feel conflicted and want to give up the current relationship.When a man chatters with the woman in front of him about his problems with other women, women should be vigilant, and you must clearly realize: "This man may not be loyal to you".At this moment, a woman should not show in front of this man that she is already devoted to him, let alone be too intimate with him.Don't think, woman, that if you just show sympathy at the right time and listen patiently to his memories at this time, he will regard you as a confidante and spend his life with you.

Women must not be confused. When they don’t know much about each other, they will plunge into his arms, love him unreservedly, and be willing to fulfill all his demands, especially if they established a relationship with him too early. sexual relationship.As everyone knows, while he is in love with you, he will also talk sweetly to other women, and keep dating.It is difficult for a man who is in the period of looking around to regard you as a soul mate and is willing to spend his life with you with his heart.