Chapter 12 susan in love again

Three months later, Susan fell in love again.She fell deeply in love with Jack.During the year when they met and fell in love, everything went smoothly and everything was satisfactory.However, a year later, Susan realized a cruel fact: Jack is not suitable for her.In her heart, she does love Jack, but as she gets to know him better, she realizes that he is good, but not suitable for her. This time, Susan decided to break up with Jack.Hearing the news, Jack was stunned, and his reaction was the same as that of Susan. "Don't do this, think again carefully, let's start over!" Thinking of Jack's torment and hurt because of his feelings, Susan felt that she had an inescapable responsibility, so it was difficult for her to insist on breaking up.The two stayed together reluctantly for a few more months.However, Susan found that things were getting worse.The two became more and more divergent, and there were more and more differences and disputes together. Susan couldn't stand it anymore. did exactly the same.

Only now did Susan begin to believe that you could love someone and not marry him. In personal counseling sessions, Susan finally forgave Bill emotionally.She now understands why he chose to leave in the first place.And before that, she couldn't understand this anyway.With a new understanding and without prejudice, she can now see Bill in a friendlier way.She finally let go of herself, freed from the old feelings of resentment towards Bill. Now, Susan finally learned from the pain and made up her mind to break up with Jack without fear or guilt.In her heart, she already knew that Jack was not suitable for her. Now she raised the sail of love again and continued to look for true love. Once the real man appeared, she would rush to him without hesitation.If in the past, she would feel deeply guilty for having the idea of ​​breaking up with herself, and dragged on until the relationship became hopeless, she would be forced to give up.This time, she was able to take the initiative to break up, and expressed deep sympathy for Jack but was not ashamed; Good times, but now we have to end this relationship."

More than three months later, Susan met Tom.They fell in love at first sight and soon fell in love.Since then, they have gone through the five stages of dating in full.After nine months together, they bonded.This pair of like-minded couples have lived an enviable and happy life since then. Now they have lived together for twelve years, and their relationship has become stronger and more mellow. On the anniversary of 2019, we meet and swear that we will raise our eyebrows together, love and accompany each other until we grow old, and forever. Susan, who is now in a happy marriage, is more grateful to Bill for giving up. "Bill was really brave at that time. He followed the call of his heart and resolutely proposed to break up. Now that I think about it, I really thank him, otherwise I would never have met Tom." Bill finally found his ideal in the same way. living a happy life.

Susan's story fully illustrates such a truth: just love between two people is not enough!How important it is to end a relationship on a positive note!In the end, both Susan and Bill were freed from the resentment complex and guilt, and thus gained true love. Are you ready to fall in love? The number one challenge in dating is this: Instead of mentally dwelling on finding your significant other, focus on warming up for love so that when he or she appears in front of you, you immediately spot you. true love.Many people look for true love, or are found by true love, precisely when they are not really looking for it.The truth is this: true love will appear once you yourself are ready.

Many people look for true love, or are found by true love, precisely when they are not really looking for it The important part of warming up for love is: getting to know yourself gradually.Just like when we were teenagers, we gradually learned what it means to be masculine and fit, and what is feminine and beautiful.Dating places with the opposite sex are exciting not just because we're getting to know them, but because we're getting to know ourselves.When we were teenagers, our dates were young and curious, not to find a life partner, but to learn about ourselves through dating and discover the emotional attraction between the sexes.

Attraction is often fragile.You might think you're deeply in love with someone, but you're not.You're just blinded by love for a while.You start to burn, agitate, and exhilarate with the burning desire to be with your Quarry forever, however, once you really get to know him/her, your enthusiasm will gradually cool down.There is no doubt that in the early days of the first meeting, you are savoring what it is like to look forward to meeting someone, you are deeply attracted to him/her, you are passionately in love with him/her, and you have a strong feeling for everything related to him/her. The desire to seek, however, is such an immature feeling that it is far from true love of the soul.However, experiencing this process is precisely an essential and important part of preparing to find your soulmate.

Sometimes, after a relationship fails or you are rejected by the person you like, even if you are no longer young at that time, it still takes a long time for you to adjust yourself, let yourself regain confidence, and continue to be a good man or a good person. Women are full of confidence.Once you've convinced yourself that you're attractive to the opposite sex, you can move beyond the first stage of dating and move on to the next stage with more deliberation and seriousness.