Chapter 3 Translation sequence ----

be a beneficiary of love Since ancient times, both in China and abroad, women have been in a state of oppression in a patriarchal society.The society has never given women the opportunity to receive education and participate in various social opinions. The role of women seems to be only the caretaker of a family, and even in a polygamous society, they may be reduced to a tool for men's sexual needs and reproduction.Since women's ingenuity is suppressed, and they have no way to complain in the limited social circle, they have to hide their grievances in their hearts, be a tamer under the social system, or turn into a violent anti-vulgarity, and become an object of criticism.

Women have been the accessories of men for thousands of years. Fortunately, at the beginning of this century, the women's rights movement fought for women's political voting rights, and many women replaced men's jobs during the war. Only then did women get out of the family and contribute to social construction. Give full play to its talents that have been suppressed for thousands of years.At this time, feminism was widely discussed, and women also demanded equal access to rights that were exclusive to men in the past.As a result, women are liberated from the family and enter the school, and then enter the society after leaving the school to compete with men.On the surface, it seems that they have broken the traditional role for thousands of years and no longer succumbed to the oppressive position, but in essence they are facing unprecedented new challenges, that is, modern women not only have to compete with men in society, but also cannot be separated from caregivers in the family character of.

The high living conditions in the material age either make most women choose to go out to work to maintain their family income, or they are unwilling to give up work for better material life and self-space.So the candle burns at both ends, and the living price paid by women is obviously higher than that of men. Women have to fight for their own rights again, breaking the tradition of men only caring about the outside and ignoring the inside, and requiring men to also shoulder the responsibility of sharing housework. After women get rid of the shackles of self-repression, men's words and deeds no longer become a unique authority.Confidence enables women to fight for themselves, but it may be because of the unshakable tradition or nature. Men still adhere to the legacy of the patriarchal society in the past, and may not be willing to play a role of compromise.There are endless disputes between men and women due to differences in opinions and concepts or even sexual incompatibility, and they often break up marriage contracts and go their separate ways.The ancestors who abide by the law of marriage contract probably would not have imagined that after women got rid of the repression of roles in the 20th century, marriage would be as important as changing clothes.

Is this phenomenon due to men's unwillingness to give up their self-centeredness, or is it because women's consciousness is too raised?Is it right or wrong to ditch ill-fitting clothes for another partner?How much negative impact does divorce have on family ethics?Leaving aside the merits and demerits of the high divorce rate, it is impossible for modern women to go back and play a repressed role. Establishing a good relationship between the sexes is bound to be the most important issue in maintaining marriage and family. The author of this book has studied the ways of getting along with men and women for many years, and has established his own unique insights into the love and marriage relationship between men and women. Using the example of men and women from different planets, men and women often cause misunderstandings due to differences in nature, which leads to uncontrollable disputes and conflicts. The serious topic of the book creates a relaxed interpretation, allowing readers to resolve the tense antagonism between men and women with a smile.

The author is often on the speaking circuit for the establishment of romantic relationships between the sexes and has saved many couples' marriages.The way of getting along with the sexes he advocated is actually a new kind of gender equality. Men and women pay equal power for love and marriage, and jointly pay the price of life, so as to avoid accumulating grievances due to unequal contributions and threatening marriage. . In the relaxed reading room, I hope you are also one of the beneficiaries of love saved by the author.