Chapter 18 A wife is like a plastic flower that never fades (2)

After thinking about it, I decided to give up all thoughts about the uprising.Because I care about her feelings, I rebelled, she was uncomfortable, and I was even more uncomfortable.She is a "leader", she is happy, and I am happy too. I fear her because I love her. I asked my friend, "What kind of flower do you compare your wife to?" "Rose." "Red rose." "lily." "Musk lily." I said my answer slowly: "My wife, I compare her to a plastic flower." Everyone who heard it was shocked. "Plastic flowers, very common, but never wither, wherever you put them." I explained.

Scientists deeply analyzed human hormones and came to a disappointing law: the so-called "love" has a shelf life of no more than 36 months.Perhaps many people have personally verified this statement. But for me, love is infinite, just like the blooming period of plastic flowers. What is love?Fiery, lingering, day and night thinking... This is certainly necessary, but it is only a stage.After a long time, apart from oil, salt and firewood, marriage always needs some emotional maintenance. In layman's terms, the reason why couples become husband and wife in the first place is because they love each other.It's a bit like doing business. The first cooperation is successful, purely voluntary and win-win.But we don't end up with just one deal, we have to cooperate for a long time, and we don't always make money.Even if you don't make money, you have to maintain the relationship and prepare for the next time you make money.This is business.

How does marriage work?Everyone has a theory. Some people are tired of living and go to the outside world to seek comfort; some people are bold and small, so they have to find faults at home all day long, complaining about others; there are still people who know that life is nothing more than this, bumping around like headless chickens, it is better to look for this road go down.Then let's build the road. If there are any ditches, we will fill them up together. If there are any old grievances, we will calmly resolve them. I humbly believe that among the above three, the latter is the best policy.To put it bluntly, it's the next one.

In addition to business, I would like to make another addition: Marriage requires savings.What is saved is not money, but every day, a little bit of care between two people.Every family is in a hurry to use money, and they are afraid that the money will be used up when it is used up.The relationship between two people is the same, save a little every day, the key is that if you save more, there will be interest.No matter what happens in the future, whether it makes people angry or causes misunderstandings, the first thing you think of is the good of the other party.