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Chapter 48 man's woman

Selected Proses of Jia Pingwa 贾平凹 1119Words 2018-03-18
If a rational analysis is made, since a woman is only a female person, the beauty and ugliness of her image are meaningless.But the actual situation is that every man, including the most rational ones, will have a strange feeling when he sees a specific, living and beautiful woman. Any man, no matter whether he talks about it or not, firstly adopts his attitude towards a woman he meets for the first time based on his appearance. "Love at first sight" in love is praised very beautifully. Of course, appearance is what makes love at first sight.As for women, they are used to pleasing men with their own beauty, "look for those who please themselves", look, it seems noble, but it is actually bitter.Which woman does not try to increase the rate of turning heads on the street, even if she meets too greedy eyes, the scene is embarrassing, and she scolds "rogue!" There is a bit of pride in the scolding.In today's society, almost all stores are for women, selling a lot of clothes and cosmetics, and 80% of the magazine covers are women's headshots, as if the world belongs to women, but in fact, this is the world of men. reflect.In men's concept, women are born to contribute beauty, which women often don't say, but women do.This concept develops to the extreme, that is, men's enjoyment of women's beauty is alienated. Specifically, when it comes to a couple, it is the man who tries his best to serve the woman. Therefore, some stupid men mistakenly believe that the yin is flourishing and the yang is declining.In the 1930s, there was a famous soldier named Feng Yuxiang. When he got married, he asked his woman why she married him. The woman said: God sent me to manage you.This remark made many people admire.But think about it, what is hidden behind these words?To put it bluntly, to put it more clearly, men exist to conquer the world, women exist to conquer men, and what conquers men is women's beauty, beauty is the factor that men limit their role to women and are willing to be conquered.Those who understand this meaning are great men. If they are warriors, they will act the story of "the hero is sad and beautiful."If you don't understand this meaning, there are hooligans and rapists who get shot.Knowing that this world still belongs to men, and women also understand the role of their own beauty, and not being passive by beauty, and making beauty work for themselves for a long time, how should women live peacefully?Men and women are the two halves of human beings. There has never been a male half and a female half. The two halves are the same but have differences, and differences attract each other. No one can do without the other.But men are born with a low nature that is easy to get tired. Therefore, a smart woman wants to make herself valued by men forever. When she becomes a wife, she must always be favored by her husband. Men possess and possess men. What transforms this relationship is a kind of equality and a kind of self-independence.Live by yourself, live with personality, live with enthusiasm, this is always alive and new, it is this kind of constant life that makes men feel fresh and attractive.Although this ending is the same as the goal of trying to please a man, the quality has changed.

It can be said that there are quite a few women who are dissatisfied with the world of men.But mistakenly focused on being a strong woman.It is human misfortune that men dominate this world, but it is also human misfortune if a certain woman also dominates this world.A man is a man, a woman is a woman, and the development of men and women is bipolar. This is the real man and woman, and it is the original intention of God to create man.A man is not a man, and a woman is not a woman. On the contrary, the world of yin and yang seems to be one, but it is actually unbalanced.
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