Chapter 45 It is not the world that can reconcile, only yourself

My friend Mr. W and I have been drinking a lot lately. This time, he was in good shape, and when we sat down, he said, "I figured it out!" In ten minutes or so, three glasses of 58-degree wine were drunk, scaring the baby to death. So, I asked him suspiciously but cautiously: "It seems that the matter has been resolved?" He blushed and hiccupped loudly, forced a smile and waved his hands: "No, so I decided to rent a house and move out today." I said with shame: "Yes, your smile is a smile of extreme anger." Therefore, the two of them could only continue to toast to cover up the background atmosphere of sadness, and the result was that they both suffered losses and got drunk.

First let me introduce, Mr. W is my friend for many years, older than me, he is handsome and talented, and he is a well-known character in the media circle, but he is still loyal and honest, especially when it comes to the relationship between men and women. It is rare serious, nervous and not lively.No matter how many hints and provocations around him, and the eyeliner is thrown away by winking eyes, he stands still and must wait for the person he is satisfied with. This is evidenced by the words of Ms. Seoul, who also knows him. She often teaches me: If a man is to become a great talent, he must be like Mr. W!

In the end, he looked at me with a faint expression of hating iron for not being able to make steel. The implication is that people like me, let alone "small things", are basically things that can't be done. However, now even when Miss Seoul talks about Mr. W, she doesn't mention his grandeur, she can only sigh. Things are not complicated at all. Due to various reasons, Mr. W, who is outstanding in all aspects, has always been "a long-cherished wish" in love. More than a year ago, he finally showed signs of being a late bloomer.The subject is a girl ten years younger than Mr. W, let's call her Miss Y. Ms. Y was so enthusiastic when she came up, she chased after Mr. W fiercely, everything about Mr. W was so perfect to her, even the frown when he coughed had its own retouching effect, it was still Ah Baose.More importantly, this girl knows better than all previous admirers that the cost of ambiguity is low, the effect is slow, and she has to work hard.

So, within less than a month of knowing Mr. W, she volunteered to bring lunch to Mr. W at work every day, and rushed to Mr. W's house after get off work to become a snail girl. Mr. W was completely flustered by the stormy attack of the post-90s generation. On the one hand, he felt that the girl had small breasts, but the progress of this matter was a bit out of control. The biggest hesitation is that the age difference between the two is too big. So, he decided to ask a friend like me who seemed to be exhausted emotionally, and suddenly looked back at the dim lights for advice.I have always been a good Chinese partner who is good at persuading people, and I have long seen what Mr. W meant.In fact, most of the choices that seem to be in a dilemma, the person concerned has already made a choice. If you ask your opinion, if you agree, he will immediately increase his confidence; if you object, he will naturally choose not to listen.This is especially true for things like feelings. For me, who has helped senior sisters write emotional columns to earn pocket money since the third year of high school, I know this well.It’s like when I saw a boy cheating on his girlfriend on the road, I was able to write two in-depth articles with opposing views but made tears at the same time. The titles were very simple, such as “If you can’t carry her forever, don’t carry her forever.” A while" and then "A lifetime is so long, so why not memorize her for a while".As for how to choose the road, of course whoever chooses knows.

Closer to home, I have given examples from Duras to Yang Zhenning to fully reassure Mr. W that age is not a problem, and there is something for an uncle to match a loli. What happened next was logical. On a dark and stormy night, Ms. Y wittily took down Mr. W, who was half-pushed and half-hearted. We thought this was the beginning of the story of the prince and the princess, but we didn't expect that the story would quickly go to the dark line. Girl Y, who thought the overall situation was settled, quickly took off her new clothes and came up with a plan. First of all, there are all kinds of self-directed and self-acted sadistic plots and unreasonable requirements: from the screen saver of the mobile phone to the bank card, Mr. W has to replace everything with hers; every week, no matter how late Mr. W works overtime, he has to accompany her to have a hair dryer; Mr. W's game, she had no conditions to create conditions to go, she went to play mobile games without saying a word, and waited for the end with a dark face... Over time, our group of friends consciously felt embarrassed to ask Mr. W to go out to save games.In addition, Ms. Y will exhaust her imagination to find faults every week, and have a theme-based fight with Mr. W. The theme is completely improvised.

As a result, Mr. W burned all his internal organs, from fully cooperating to exhausted to insensitive, and finally he could only say two words: "Break up." Who knew that breaking up was the beginning of the tragedy. Miss Y transformed from a weak girl in our impression to Nikita, and this story has since changed to the theme of revenge. Revenge is not terrible, but revenge has a plan. This girl's revenge, from target analysis to strategy formulation to integrated communication and implementation, is so professional that Miss Seoul and I, as colleagues, kneel down and worship.

First of all, Ms. Y quit her job to devote herself wholeheartedly.Starting from the people around her, as long as the friends of Mr. W who know her, she swipes the Weibo screen of the circle of friends to write emotional confessions. Secondly, Ms. Y did it herself.No matter it is windy or rainy, hot sun or cold winter, he stays at Mr. W's company three days a week. From the doorman to the general manager, everyone knows everyone.In the other two weekends, she smashed glass and yelled at Mr. W's community. From the community security to the nearby 110, she became an acquaintance. They even staged a sky-stealing trap in the middle of the night, sneaking into Mr. W's office and Mr. W's underground garage to write bloody books on the desk and car windows.What surprised us the most was that she was able to search every restaurant with the same name in the city to besiege her time and time again with just a WeChat message from a friend of Mr. W until she found Mr. W.It can be said that where there is a will, there is a way, and those who have a heart will live up to it.

There are too many creative stories about Mr. W being framed, and the bloody plots that countless people persuaded are useless.In short, now that I see the old-fashioned plots of revenge on wicked people in domestic TV dramas, I just change the channel. It has been more than a year since this situation, Mr. W almost collapsed, but the girl became more and more crazy.What made us dumbfounded and shuddered the most was that after what happened, Ms. Y just smiled shyly and said: "As long as you marry me, I will stop making trouble." In the end, Mr. W couldn't take it anymore and decided to secretly rent a house to live outside.Although this won't solve any problems, at least you don't have to play "peek-a-boo reality show" every day when you get off work.

For more than a whole year, Mr. W asked me what to do, but I was speechless as I boasted that I had a good tongue. After thinking about it for a long time, I just want to know, girl, how did you live like this? A person who is so stubborn must have a reason to be so. Ms. Y has no friends, and she has a falling out with her parents because of Mr. W. Every day, she walks around the city with disheveled hair, devoting herself wholeheartedly to her own revenge.Like Mrs. Xianglin, she said whenever she met everyone: "He said he wanted to marry me, how could he not keep his words? You see, I am not a human being or a ghost now, it's all his fault."

Her theoretical system is closed and internally cyclical, and she does not listen to any different opinions. She wants to perform this reality show to move the world, but in fact she only moved herself. Not every old saying is true, but there is one I agree with, and it's called "There must be something to hate in a poor man". I think Ms. Y is such a pitiful and hateful person. She is not strong enough, and feelings are the best fig leaf. She accidentally gets a life-saving straw and uses it as a glass slipper. Things like low self-esteem often like to appear in a blind face.

But everyone knows that when the lights dim and the curtain falls, it is not the world that can reconcile, only yourself.