Chapter 12 "Jin Ping Mei" Xiao Zha and Gossip about the Red Chamber Chapter 11 The girl in the Dream of the Red Chamber, which one do you want to marry?

Of the girls in Dream of the Red Chamber, which one do you want to marry?From it, you may be able to see a person's character and outlook on love. Daiyu: You value friendship and are willing to tolerate.It is difficult for modern men to like Daiyu. This is an era when love is very calculating. Daiyu has many problems: frail and sick, arrogant and self-satisfied, and has no dust in her eyes.With her, you must have a lot of patience.Many people think that only "sissy" people like Baoyu are careful about Daiyu's company. In fact, on the contrary, only real men know how to appreciate Daiyu's spiritual beauty—she is the purest woman.Choosing Daiyu shows that you value spiritual harmony and emotional resonance, and that you have the courage to continue to pay for love.However, I would also like to say that for those who like Daiyu, one possibility is that your spirit is particularly strong enough to soothe the restless souls of yourself and the other party. This is a blessing for you and your Daiyu.Alternatively, you are also a bit of a narcissist, a perfectionist.A perfect person must be demanding on love, and there will always be violent scenes between you and her.What's more, alas, Daiyu is hard to find. If you can't get it right, you will only get the shape but not the spirit, then you will be in great trouble.

Zijuan: Ah, I congratulate you. You are really a smart person, Zijuan. She is the most healthy girl in the Grand View Garden. She is so sincere, kind, considerate and considerate.So Cao Gong promised it with "wisdom".The wise are happy, the benevolent live long.Daiyu tends to go to extremes in her thoughts, but she is much more open-minded.She is the least slavish, and Qingwen is worse than her, because Qingwen strives to get rid of her status as a slave, and strives for everything, but she subconsciously does not regard herself as a slave, she treats Daiyu as her friend Caring and loving.Her noble temperament is not inferior to that of Daiyu.

There is a saying that if you like a girl, you should pay attention to how she gets along with friends of the same sex.This makes perfect sense.Those who are righteous to their friends will not be ruthless to their lovers.If you really find a girl like Zicuckoo, it will guarantee a lifetime of happiness. Attacker: What what?Did I hear you wrong?That's right, you like attacking people, so I have to regret to tell you that you are really boring.In Xiren, women's slavishness is concentrated, and it can even be said that it is the inferiority of Chinese people.What Li Shuangren said: the morality of sheep.You are confused by her "gentle and gentle, like osmanthus and orchid", which proves that you lack wisdom and desire to conquer - you don't know the joy of meeting your confidant in wine and meeting your opponent in chess.A person who likes female slaves must not be a nobleman in spirit.

Xiangyun: Come on, Xiangyun is just a child, pure gold and jade, but the spirit has not yet been opened.Don't look at how well she writes poems, how fast she eats venison, and how crazy she drinks—she refuses to grow up at all, that's her way of protecting herself.When something happens, he throws his fists and throws his sleeves straight up, like a chivalrous woman, but in fact he lacks a muscle.Such a girl is straightforward in love and hate, so she is easy to be wooed and used by others.do you like herOh, you are Helmer, you like little squirrels and little birds.But be careful, if your Xiangyun learns to think, it will be a kind of pain to her; if not, you think she is cute when she is twenty, but what about when she is forty?

Baochai: Hehe, I knew you wanted to choose her!Baochai is the wife's first choice. I mean, according to the standard of mate selection, she is all good-healthy and beautiful, stable and generous, harmonious and tactful.You who choose Baochai should be the kind of person who is very rational and good at arranging life. Daiyu repays others with integrity, Sister Feng shows prestige, while Baochai uses "virtue" and "skill" to make people naturalize.The entire Grand View Garden is surrounded by it.She is the most perfect combination of Confucian philosophy and Taoist power tactics. The knowledge of world affairs is knowledge, and the understanding of human feelings is writing.In the past, women had no use in society, they only competed to be superior to the boudoir, and the highest achievement was to marry a good husband and become an "ancestor" in the future. Today's Baochai will do something even more.

If you marry Baochai, you will be very happy, but most of this happiness is for outsiders to see.Between you and her, it will never be possible to reverse the life and death of madness. You lack the purest and most beautiful realm in love.You have been with her for twenty years, you have achieved great success and lived a stable life, but I give you a word to represent your feelings at that time: depressed. Or to put it another way: Even if the case is raised, it is difficult to agree. Li Wan: Oh, your vision is not bad, of course, there is another possibility, you are stupid. Li Wan does not write poetry, but he has a poetic heart.Su Shi's wife, Wang Shi, said when admiring the moon, the autumn moon is not as good as the spring moon. The autumn moon makes people sad, but the spring moon makes people happy.Poxian Xu Yineng wrote poems.Those who have a poetic heart have the possibility to perceive beauty.Watching the chanting of the sisters in Daguanyuan, they all followed Li Wan's judgement, and not only respected her as a sister-in-law.Luxuean's scene couplet, Baoyu lost, Li Wan said: "I just saw that the red plums in Changcui'an are interesting. I want to break a branch and put it in a bottle. I hate Miaoyu as a human being. I ignore him. Now I will punish you to get a branch." .” What a charming articulation!Li Wan's interest was really overwhelmed by the environment.Qinse is in the imperial court, so it's better to be quiet.If you can tune the strings, you will naturally have a moving sound.

Li Wan's advantages are not limited to this, Li Wan is very good at living.In Jia's house, she kept quiet, kept herself safe, avoided all conflicts in the big family, and was called "Bodhisattva".In the forty-fifth chapter, Wang Xifeng was noisy half-jokingly and half-seriously, but inadvertently revealed Li Wan's shrewdness in housekeeping (her small family).Li Wan is not talented enough to achieve great things, but she is a good wife and mother in a well-off family. However, if you like Li Wan because of his "moral perfection", I'm sorry, but you are a super stupid.

But no matter what, you who choose Li Wan are a realist. Xifeng: I appreciate you!The key to our quiz today is not which girl to choose, but which girl to "choose". Do you dare to say that you admire Sister Feng, which proves that you do not have the morality of a sheep, and you are willing to challenge life. In Sister Feng, there is the most lacking vitality in this declining noble family. She is ambitious and goes forward bravely, grabbing everything she thinks she should grab.She was just unlucky and was born in the last days, otherwise, she would be Scarlett.Only Rhett Brad dared to like Scarlett. Ashley was in awe of her vitality and avoided her repeatedly. He was not worthy of Scarlett. Rhett Brad, who had the same vitality, was Scarlett's opponent.Jia I also didn't know how to appreciate Sister Feng, he was always sneaking around, not only because of his lust, but also because of the pressure Sister Feng put on him.The sorrow of Sister Feng lies in the fact that she has no right to choose, so she has to be tied with a vulgar man like Jia Yi; the sorrow of Scarlett lies in that she has the right to choose, but the Puritan and ladylike education given to her by her mother are always in line with her nature. The conflict made her unclear about her choices.We blame Sister Feng and Scarlett for their enthusiasm for money and ruthlessness towards people, but we rarely see the fact that they are both insecure.Jia Yi made Sister Feng insecure, and the war made Scarlett feel insecure. That was a way for them to fill the emptiness in their hearts.Don't think that it was Sister Feng's misconduct that led to the failure of Jia's family. Without Sister Feng, Jia's failure would have been faster.

All the goddesses in creation myths have somewhat of Wang Xifeng's temperament.For example, In Nana in Sumerian mythology.Daiyu and Xifeng support the poles of spirit and material, Daiyu make the world beautiful, and Xifeng make the world progress. If you marry Xifeng home and make good use of her talents to resist her, congratulations, you will have fun that mediocre men don't have.Wait a minute, I suddenly thought of a question. I want to find a capable wife as a backer. There are many men who are doing nothing because of their achievements. What do you think? Yuan Chun: The most valuable thing about Yuan Chun is that she can see through her own "Fengzao Palace Lady Shangshu". In fact, she "has no interest in the end".Such a woman is not surprised by favor or humiliation, and she will definitely have the ability to change.Dare to choose her, you have courage.

Tanchun: Tanchun has the same instinct as Sister Feng, and more knowledge that Sister Feng does not have.That's why Tanchun exudes a kind of heroic spirit, like a new blade of a knife, scorching hot.Tanchun has the ability to kill and make decisions, and her personality is strict and cannot be violated. Sister Feng has to avoid three points of her.Sister Feng is ruthless for "benefits", while Tanchun is ruthless for "reasons". As long as "reasons" are occupied, she will never return.If you have a conflict with her, she's fighting for her self-esteem first, not her love.Therefore, people who like to explore the spring must weigh their own weight first. If self-sufficiency is not enough to win, it is better to keep a respectful distance.Otherwise, it must be very hard for you to be with her, and you will end up leaving a word of Xie Daoyun: "Unexpectedly, there is Wang Lang in the world!"

Yingchun: I can't think of anyone who would like this Ermu, so I have to send you a word: You are really sympathetic, or your desire to dominate is too strong... Xichun: Xichun is most like a Shanghainese, "Just take care of yourself" and is a reasonable and selfish person.You can't owe me, and I don't owe you, everything is clear.One of the faults of the Chinese people is that they do not sweep the snow in front of their own houses, but only care about the frost on other people's roofs.Xichun is in line with modern morality.You like Xichun, you must be similar to her.You want to engage in weekend couples with her, pre-marital property notarization, family AA system and so on, that's fine.Such a relationship between husband and wife is simple, practical, less internal friction, and less troublesome.But there is one thing, if people's feelings are also formulated according to economic principles, it is terrible.The family, after all, is not a joint stock company.As the saying goes: Husband and wife are originally birds in the same forest, and when disaster strikes, they fly separately.Xichun must be the fastest.You can't blame her either.It should be noted that people should not be too greedy, asking others to pay more than you pay.It should be noted that there are gains and losses. Qingwen: Well, what can I say?Qingwen is the kind of "knife mouth, tofu heart" that we often see.Yes, she will be loyal to you with all her heart and soul, but in turn, you have to empty your ears and prepare to hold the nagging for the rest of your life. Qingwen is always praised as a model of courage to resist. In fact, Qingwen's sharpness is more aimed at her peers.Just like what she said: "The same slaves in this house, who is more noble than the other?" Qingwen in real life, it is common for Qingwen to have grievances with female colleagues at work and female neighbors at home.What's even more frightening is that such a kind girl will also do vicious things.You don't just look at the beautiful scenery of Yong Qingwen's sick manning the golden bird fur, you have to look at the scene when she is sick and grabs a hand that is so green and cold that it stabs Chui'er fiercely.Because she hated Zhui'er for not living up to her expectations and willing to degenerate.This is the danger of Qingwen's—they hate evil like hatred, so they believe in the absolute truth, which will make them lose their warmth.If it caught up with the Cultural Revolution, she must have joined the ranks of criticizing teachers and severed ties with her "reactionary" father. Don't look at me saying bad things about Qingwen, I still praise you for daring to choose Qingwen - you are a gentle and generous person.Qingwen is a real person, she has no scheming, her emotions are all out of her chest, her heart is open and aboveboard, she doesn't understand power, treachery and deceit, and she won't trip people up.If you can slowly influence her, it's not bad. If you marry Xiren, hey, there is no hope for the rest of your life. Miaoyu: I feel sorry for you, really!You are as empty inside as she is.Miaoyu's innocence is really hypocritical.She has more faults than Daiyu, but she is not as magnanimous as Daiyu.Maintaining the aristocratic style, in fact, has long lost the spirit of the nobility.She is very similar to Fernanda, who thought she was going to be a queen since she was a child. Her sister-in-law Amaranta imitated her artificial grammar and described her as "this is the kind of woman who would be disgusting to herself..." (sorry, no Feel free to type it out, please read it yourself).Her pride in the point rhinoceros (upper Qiao Xiapan, sound qiao3) is almost catching up with Fernanda's golden potty.Today's Miaoyu must be a petty bourgeoisie in the city, who only wears high-end fashion of a certain brand, drinks freshly ground coffee, eats Harbin Dass ice cream, and reads online reviews of "In the Mood for Love"... let's be bourgeois and happy with her! Second Sister You: Second Sister is a human being, in a word: there is no basis for advancing or retreating.Advance is not enough to resist lust, retreat is not enough to protect oneself.If you fancy the second sister, hehe, your little knowledge is similar to Jia I.This kind of woman has nothing but her looks, and the best thing in her life is a golden bird. When she meets a benefactor, she can live a good life for a few days.But she is too lacking in personality, it is difficult to keep people interested for a long time, her color is not fading, her love is gone, sooner or later she will become a little abandoned woman with disheveled hair.Without him, fate will not show mercy to those who are willing to degenerate. Third Sister You: Applause!Especially the third sister, Hongfu girl.Those who know Baoyu, apart from Daiyu, are only the third sister.It is not surprising that Daiyu and Baoyu had an alliance in the previous life, and they had been on blind date since they were young. The third sister You is the giant eye in the world.The third sister had an unfortunate life experience and was trapped in a prostitute (it is undeniable that she lost her life to Jia Zhen, Cheng Gaoben changed the original work and turned her into a "fierce girl", which greatly lost the luster of the third sister's personality), the second sister was willing to fall into the trap, and she had a fierce sex unchanged.Seeing her wearing heavy makeup and humiliating the ugly, which woman in the red building has the courage.And once you recognize Liu Xianglian, you will change your direction and go to your lover, so it is said: "From the heaven of love, to the land of love." It is easy for people to fall, but it is difficult to go up. and also.Of the men in the Dream of the Red Chamber, only Liu Xianglian has heroism and is worthy of the third sister. Unfortunately, Liu Xianglian is not Li Jing, who ruined the life of the third sister in vain. You, who admire the third sister, also have a bit of Yanzhao spirit. Ping'er: Ping'er behaves a bit like Xifeng, but he is still an attacker in his heart.After being beaten for no reason, the old lady sent a few words of comfort, and she felt honored on her face.Fortunately, the aura still exists, the scheming is not heavy, and the conscience is not lost.You who choose Pinger are a happy mortal.As Zhang Ailing said, there is always a corner in the world that can accommodate an ordinary couple. Xiangling: Xiangling is a little confused, very pitiful.You have a very compassionate heart, so take good care of her.I'm afraid that people who like Xiangling are more or less promiscuous, have no other, and have a weak personality, so they lack principles and tend to make unintentional mistakes. Xia Jingui: I wrote the previous part first, and this paragraph is specially written for Brother Tao Yong^_^Because I didn’t expect that there are people who like Xia Jingui. In fact, when I think about it carefully, Jingui is a female middle school Cao Cao, a capable minister of governing the world , the traitor in troubled times.There are no fixed rules for talent, the magic is in using it properly, A is arsenic, and B is a good medicine.In Liaozhai's "Princess Yunluo", the prodigal son can give up drinking too much, his wife dares to chase and kill the prodigal son with a knife, and finally leads the prodigal son back to the right path. What kind of shrew is a capable minister.Xue Pan, the "dumb overlord", no one can surrender, but he manages to subdue Xia Jingui, can you not admire him?It's a pity that Xia Jingui's energy is not on purging the court, but on eradicating dissidents - alas, the bad roots of the Chinese people.